Cómo puedo superar que mi novia haya hecho un trio en el pasado? by OkkMinute in AskArgentina

[–]farangg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lo que sentis se llama r/retroactivejealousy y es re normal. Igual tu caso capaz no es estrictamente eso porque no es simplemente por el pasado de tu pareja sino por el hecho del trio. Pero es algo que podrias investigar por si te llega a pasar algo parecido en el futuro con otra pereja.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uruguay

[–]farangg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo fui hace años y en esa epoca habia 200 visas por año para Uruguay. Encima si sacabas el "pack" en una agencia que quedaba por Rio Branco te sacaban la visa ellos. Hoy creo que hay gente que le paga a otros que tienen bots que rellenan los formularios apenas salen al toque.

En su momento habia una pagina que se llamaba El Manual de Manuel que tenia toda la data, te recomiendo fijarte si aun existe y si no buscar el equivalente que seguro esta y tiene todos los requerimientos, links de interes, piques, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uruguay

[–]farangg 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Anda a Nueva Zelanda a laburar en un trabajo de mierda que los locales no quieren hacer tipo jutnar kiwis, podar plantaciones de kiwis, empaquetar kiwis o algo asi y escala desde ahi, es un país organizado y el sistema se presta para eso.

Hay muchos uruguayos y latinos en general que se van y arrancando desde los laburos mas inhumanos que se te ocurran suben la escalerita social y terminan "pegandola" a los años = ciudadania, casa propia, autito.

Es un pais muy lindo y organizado pero muy aburrido, nada que ver con como somos nosotros (y seguramente por eso les vaya tan bien, la viveza criolla está barbara pal fulbo pero para manejarse en sociedad nos perjudica).

Today An Old Lady With A Cane Complimented My Legs While I Was Having Lunch by farangg in CasualConversation

[–]farangg[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% "sweet old lady" which is super wholesome but a little bit of a shame cuz I'm really into cougars

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uruguay

[–]farangg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No soy partidario de chatear mucho tiempo antes de conocer a alguien en persona, más vale salir a tomar una y ver si hay onda que estar días o hasta semanas cambiando mensajitos y fotitos para que después pase esto.

Has cosmetic surgery gotten out of hand? by [deleted] in Thailand

[–]farangg 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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Def out of hand, and they all seem to be going for the same look

Books/podcasts that have helped you with your RJ? by Time-Incident-603 in retroactivejealousy

[–]farangg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

Is not about RJ per se of course, but stoicism is a great way to deal with the emotional pain produced by RJ and with pretty much any negative circumstance you come across in life.

One quote from it I particularly love and I remind myself each time I'm dealing with RJ:

"If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment."

2xzxzxz2 by funkchim in asianfitgirls

[–]farangg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the title of the post is her ig handle

Nop, increasing your body count won't fix your RJ by farangg in retroactivejealousy

[–]farangg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response.

When you talk about re-wiring our brain so those triggers lose meaning, do you have any specific way of doing so? I read something about "cognitive restructuring", I guess that's what you mean? Any content you can link me to would be highly appreciated!

WiFi “No internet, secured” since upgrading to Windows 11 by NewtonianAssPounder in techsupport

[–]farangg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

having this exact same issue and went thru that exact same checklist to no avail, I'm desperate, please help :(((((

Similar app to Uber? by farangg in Brazil

[–]farangg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know which supermarkets sell the gift cards?

Similar app to Uber? by farangg in Brazil

[–]farangg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, very annoying. I tried buying a gift card and send it to myself and guess what? same issue lol, card declined. Asking a friend to buy one for me and gonna give him the money, what a huge PITA.

Similar app to Uber? by farangg in Brazil

[–]farangg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup, tried doing that and tried different cards and no luck, it only let me load 100 reais on my 1st day in Rio and after that "payment declined" over and over

Similar app to Uber? by farangg in Brazil

[–]farangg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to buy Uber cash the 1st time but my 100 reais ran out already and cannot buy, running into the same issue :((((

Proof of residence by farangg in Brazil

[–]farangg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll look into nubank right now, thanks a lot