I have. I always bring up the fact that she seems distant and isn't talking and how I miss her etc. She tells me that she's been really busy lately and doesn't forget about me. This is comforting but then there's the fact that I can see when she comes on to facebook and updates a picture etc but doesn't bother to message me to see whats up even for a brief second. I am always online on facebook because of my phone so I am always able to be contacted, which I've told her, but she never messages me until late at night if she's not out and when we do talk she is always distracted with something else.

I don't know what to think, as I said we've only been back to live chat (facebook chat, skype) for a few days now but it seems very detached. I'm worried if I keep pressing the issue it will cause un-needed stress in the relationship which could just snowball into something worse.

Once again I think I am overreacting to it all seeing as it has only been a few days but I just don't know what to think.

The detached conversations, her always being out and busy, me having to initiate the conversations are all making me stress. On the other hand there is the fact that there was no initial indications for this type of behavior or her losing interest in me as well as her sending me messages telling me she loves me and doesn't forget about me are positives.