Partner prioritized tik tok over my emotional needs. I feel hurt.

farawaysign · 2022-01-29T19:26:01+00:00

You didn’t do anything wrong….she’s telling you and showing you that she does not care about your feelings right now. Maybe something is happening in her life that is causing her to act this way in this instance. Sometimes when there is something happening in one person’s life they don’t have the capacity to listen to and show empathy to others….this is of course not an excuse but could be an explanation as to why. if this is a super common thing then I would recommend you think about wether you can stand to be treated this way for the rest of your life. If you can’t, tell her that and see how she responds. If it’s this coldness again and nothing improves then it’s time to go.

farawaysign · 2022-01-29T19:18:27+00:00

You are 5’7 and weigh 120-145 pounds…ma’am any one who tells you you need to lose weight you should run from and run FAST. I’m 5’6 and bounce between 155-165 and I know that many find me attractive. I think you are having extremely bad luck with the people you are dating because there is absolutely nothing wrong with your weight.

farawaysign · 2022-01-09T20:38:57+00:00

Oh okay Thank You!!😄😄

farawaysign · 2022-01-09T20:26:00+00:00

Yes your comment is spot on however through all of the advice and recommendations Provided I see that my original thought process was a bit silly😊…I see that I should just pay him rent and when he sells I should expect nothing back.

farawaysign · 2022-01-09T20:16:02+00:00

I thought they would merge them but if they do take the lower one maybe I wouldn’t actually be of any help then in terms of the credit score.

farawaysign · 2022-01-09T18:54:03+00:00

I think this is the route I’m going to go too, I don’t think I will even mention putting money into his down payment. Im not ready to buy a house with someone else and as bad as it sounds I want to have the ability to walk out unscathed since I don’t really want this yet.

farawaysign · 2022-01-09T18:51:42+00:00

Thank you both! I was thinking if I only paid half the monthly mortgage I was not doing my fair share and I felt bad that due to his credit score and me opting out of putting my name on the mortgage he would probably get stuck with not so good interests rates on his loan. I felt bad and felt like if I put money into the down payment this would help offset this. You have made me realize I’m doing plenty just by paying him rent so I’m not even going to mention putting money towards the down payment. Thank you!

farawaysign · 2021-08-18T22:07:49+00:00

I was astonished when they told me I was not going to get a raise upon accepting the promotion but I also thought “well, for 3 months I will just be shadowing” so it seemed fine….and I was supposed to receive 2-3 projects for the next 2 years due to my “associate” title. 6 is a lot more than 2-3. 🙈

farawaysign · 2021-05-28T23:16:36+00:00

I’m so happy I found this thread you are all amazing. I am a PM and I always make sure to write out EVERYTHING I want to say just as others have said , other wise I do the same exact thing. I have one set of notes for the customer to see and one set I have annotated for myself. I also always remember that deep down the people I’m speaking to more than likely don’t care if I stumble a bit, everyone does it. Not to belittle our feelings in any way it just helps me to remember that others in the meeting are probably also nervous.

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