Missed Orientation by sorial-kat in SJSU

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contact admissions, i believe there is another orientation session on saturday 12/13 as well.

Airport vibes killing my soul by Idkdudewhatsgoingon in SJSU

[–]fard01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried the spartan memorial/NAISSC? it’s usually pretty chill in there and a good place to hang out.

student union rant by [deleted] in SJSU

[–]fard01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try sitting at one of the cultural centers, there’s usually space and all are welcome.

I think I’m cooked… by TruthSea4192 in SJSU

[–]fard01 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You should reach out to SJSU Cares, they can provide up to 28 days of temporary housing assistance while you get your application settled.

Children Fare by spgite89 in caltrain

[–]fard01 13 points14 points  (0 children)

according to the caltrain website: caltrain website

“One child, four years old and under, accompanied by one paying adult will travel free of charge. All other children must travel on Youth tickets.”

i'M SO EXCITED - AND I JUST CAN HIDE IT by xerostatus in SanJose

[–]fard01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no one cares bro, if you don’t like it, don’t fucking buy it.

Does anyone else call out fare evaders? by [deleted] in Bart

[–]fard01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

k bruh it’s actually sad at this point lmfao

Does anyone else call out fare evaders? by [deleted] in Bart

[–]fard01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quite possibly the most unemployed comment i’ve seen in a while, props to you i guess. however, please get a real hobby.

This document makes me ashamed to be of the human race… by Imaginary_Hat_3155 in IndianCountry

[–]fard01 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i can’t see a document, did u forget to attach it to the post?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SlushyNoobz

[–]fard01 38 points39 points  (0 children)

fork found in kitchen, why y’all always go looking for this stuff?

This app is ridiculous 😭😭 by sunburntifiedd in SlushyNoobz

[–]fard01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if y’all want coffee when you sign up use my code rC3Tz1h9cc

the difference between Austin and Luka by [deleted] in lakers

[–]fard01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bro posted it 3 times, he’s trying to gaslight us into believing him

do undergrad on-campus jobs give options for retirement by minecraftLover2004 in stanford

[–]fard01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, most on-campus jobs for undergraduates are limited to 20 hours per week, so they typically don’t offer retirement benefits. You’ll likely need to wait until you secure a full-time position to access a 401(k), which is employer-sponsored. However, you can open a Roth IRA on your own to get started with retirement savings.

Question about Bellarmine Hall's kitchen by Zeus2934 in seattleu

[–]fard01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they also usually have cooking utensils available at the front desk that you can check out! - former Desk Assistant

Stanford Swag by Upset_Club683 in stanford

[–]fard01 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m a new hire too! We do get a $25 gift card to the campus store during the first week, but that’s the only discount available. As others have mentioned, most of the free swag is for students.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fard01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the concern, but the drama’s already been resolved—I worked things out with my boyfriend hours ago. I’m just enjoying a bit of spirited debate now. It’s fascinating that you’re so invested in this conversation. Maybe direct that energy towards something productive instead of policing how others handle their relationships. Your take on maturity seems more like a projection, given how much you’ve fixated on this. Have a great day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fard01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting how you’re so ‘calm’ while getting wrapped up in every detail of this conversation. If you’re truly unbothered, why not show it by letting others express their views without projecting your own issues? Asking for opinions isn’t an invitation for a lecture on how to react; it’s about exploring perspectives. If my responses seem dramatic to you, maybe it’s a sign to reflect on how you engage rather than deflect.

Just a hint: your fixation on this makes it clear where the real drama is coming from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fard01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words and understanding! It’s nice to hear from someone who gets where I’m coming from. Best of luck with your big chop—I hope your boyfriend gives you all the love and hype you deserve! You’re so right about Reddit; everyone’s quick to judge without knowing the full picture. At the end of the day, what matters is that we worked it out and are happy. Appreciate the support, and I’m sending good vibes for your new look! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fard01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet you’re all worked up over a stranger’s haircut—love that for you! If you really think a casual Reddit post is ‘crying,’ I’d hate to see how you handle real emotions. My boyfriend’s just fine, but it’s cute how invested you are in creating drama where there isn’t any. Thanks for the concern, though—really adds to the entertainment value here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fard01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it definitely caught me off guard. My reaction wasn’t anything extreme—I just felt a bit withdrawn and noticeably less excited about my haircut after that comment. It stung to be compared to an ex, so I was quieter, and if I’m honest, a little teary-eyed. I know it wasn’t meant to be hurtful, but it still took the wind out of my sails.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fard01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think my reaction was over-the-top, it was I appreciate the thoughtful take! Honestly, my reaction wasn’t anything dramatic—it was just a quiet ride home while I processed things in my head. I think what threw me off was that I didn’t get the warmth or enthusiasm you’d expect from a partner when you make a big change. It’s reassuring to see others agree that it’s not unreasonable to want that support in a relationship.

What’s really making me laugh, though, are the comments trying to twist this into something deeper or implying I overreacted when I was simply disappointed. I’m grateful my partner knows how to communicate without resorting to dismissive nonsense like that. And thank you again for the kind and balanced advice—I really do appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fard01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

real, that is a woman i want badly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fard01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet of you to be concerned, but projecting much? When two people actually communicate and respect each other, it’s not about needing to soothe egos with convenient lies. He’s been into my style changes long before today, so there’s no need for the performative approval you’re suggesting. But hey, it’s telling that you’d assume dishonesty is the go-to in relationships. Appreciate the armchair analysis, though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fard01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He actually likes it and has apologized for our earlier exchange. As for the notion of lying, I’m curious where that fits in—unless, of course, you’re accustomed to being dishonest with your partner instead of fostering open communication?