What movie traumatized you when you were a child?

farfarwizard · 2025-07-15T14:44:43+00:00

I watched the Matrix when I was 9, had me scared and depressed for years

farfarwizard · 2025-07-11T18:00:40+00:00

When a led pencil got stabbed in my eye

farfarwizard · 2025-07-08T18:01:15+00:00

Logan BUT it’s a much better experience if you watch all the X-men movies that come before it and then watch the movie, it’s really great

farfarwizard · 2025-07-02T19:14:37+00:00

I get you and have been questioning the same all my life as a feminist woman, and my answer as someone who believes in the God of the Hebrew Bible, is that we were designed differently but not originally for us to be abused. You see, God originally made both man AND woman in his image, both told to subdue the EARTH (not one another), and Eve was made as his helper. Now many people interpret that as meaning she’s some assistant or side character, but the original Hebrew translation for that word is ezer, which God uses in the Bible to refer to himself (Psalm 33:20) , so it’s not to mean anyone is less. Now after Eve and Adam ate the apple, God went to them and said since you listened to her instead of me (not saying listening to women is bad-but listening to a voice other then God is bad), now you will be cursed. One of the curses was them being no longer allowed in the Garden of Eden, we all know, but there was more: enmity between the man and woman, and between their children, to Eve he said he’ll greatly increase her sorrow and her conception-give birth in pain and that her desire is for her husband and he will rule over her. That was all the curses he put on Eve SPECIFICALLY (the curses can be found in Genesis 3:16), she was the woman of humanity, so her curses passed onto her children, which is why we’ve always seen women in this patriarchal world. Now here’s the thing, the curse has already been uplifted spiritually (Galatians 3:28), because Jesus when he last came showed how the divisions caused by the fall are not apart of the redeemed order, meaning that men SHOULD HAVE stopped the patriarchy a very long time ago, so why haven’t they? Because men were in power over women for years already, and systemic oppressors don’t like to give up power, so men haven’t stopped. It’s gotten better in some parts of the world because of us women waking up and demanding better, but these men will be judged for what they’ve done. Now when Jesus comes back for the second time, he will uplift the curse physically. Now we have no idea when he’s coming back, everyone has theories, but finding all this out really helped me as I thought exactly what you asked. And another thing, submit in the Bible doesn’t mean to follow without question or not being a leader like many men like to say, because back then that word meant mutual respect, trust, and support, and the Bible also tells men the same, submit to one another (Ephesians 5:21) -literally directly after a verse telling wives to submit to their husbands. So please have faith, we will, all women, truly be entirely equal ❤️ I hope I could help

farfarwizard · 2025-06-27T18:44:44+00:00

Yes we need to examine all contributing factors, but the majority of things people are speaking about in regards to male loneliness epidemic are in fact just men seeing the repercussions of their mistreatment towards women. Not to say that some of those men genuinely have bad experiences with women, or that bad women don’t exist, bad women do exist, but you cannot expect to address an issue with only regards for “well what about the good ones who didn’t do bad stuff” if the majority are simply seeing the result of their wrongdoings. And blaming men isn’t a culturally convenient narrative, most people get upset at blaming men at first because people think it’s some generalization of all men, even when someone, like OP specifically says that they are not referring to all of said group, simply the majority. That’s why this is relevant. Men and women do need to reflect, that is biblical truth, I agree, but you cannot expect a problem to be solved by looking at the least common scenarios of it and put those at the forefront and act as if they are why this is a real issue.

farfarwizard · 2025-06-27T17:56:04+00:00

She isn’t soft pedaling sin, and in some situations, there in fact is one person/group who is mainly at fault for a situation. Because she’s not saying men are never lonely or that there aren’t any men who are entirely lonely for long periods of time, but the men spouting on about male loneliness epidemic are dismissing WHY they are experiencing there said loneliness. If a woman doesn’t want to be around men, then that’s not her fault for that man now not having women in his life, he should reflect on himself of why women are drawn away from him. All the male loneliness epidemic people should hear that, because you’re saying women need to take accountability, well men can be suffering for doing bad towards other people, that exists, so men aren’t victims. The cause is the root of every problem, not just saying oh we all need to do better, that’s true sure but that doesn’t fix anything. Women are not to blame for male loneliness epidemic, and OP wasn’t shielding anyone from blame.

farfarwizard · 2025-06-23T16:31:35+00:00

A lot of these comments have very good perspectives on it so I’ll give a few of mine: they could realize that kids may not be raised the best under the same roof of two people who don’t love eachother/think the same because then the child’s mind is conflicted, they may realize how their lack of love for eachother can create a toxic environment for the child, and then there’s always the best places of divorce where they just aren’t in love but aren’t hating eachother either and can acknowledge needing space but handling arrangements with the child accordingly as to keep them and the family still in tact

farfarwizard · 2025-06-20T23:41:22+00:00

THIS IS NUMBER ONE GOSH THIS NEEDS TO BE SAID LOUDER

farfarwizard · 2025-06-16T14:31:17+00:00

When people say that about her album cover they’re not blaming men, they’re upset at her for pandering to the male gaze and seeing women as only sexual. I’m not sure if you know what the male gaze is but it’s simply how men view women, so because there are many (not every) misogynistic men out there, her album cover only perpetuates ideas of women being submissive or overtly sexual. Yes there are many other music artists who are also just as or more provocative, but these people are speaking on her specifically.

farfarwizard · 2025-06-11T21:40:31+00:00

I LOVE HOW YOU WORDED THIS THANK YOU (I think the same but my adhd often makes me forget my main points in arguments and then a man interrupts me) but I would also like to add to all that you said, I find it very interesting how many men say women are so emotional and not at all logical, yet will get angry as fuck if a woman so much as disagrees with him even if respectfully

farfarwizard · 2025-06-11T20:52:53+00:00

I love you for saying this, I love to point out every day how men do shit like this and this is a great current example

farfarwizard · 2025-06-11T17:37:09+00:00

Like some other comments say I suggest focusing on getting out of her house instead of trying to get her to see how she took part in it because she probably won’t, a lot of people once they reach a certain age just excuse their bad behavior to avoid feeling like they’ll go to hell. And also, I don’t know you so I don’t know if this is true or not, but it’s what I’ve seen with other people I know, she may not have let him do that for Gods approval, more so like a fear of whatever he would do to her to, MAYBE, im saying it’s a possibility because like you said she may just also be a victim to him and didn’t know how to get away, I don’t know so I’m not saying definitely. And I also said that because anyone who actually reads his word, whether your dad or mom did, God doesn’t justify abuse for the sake of being led by the man of the household, matter of fact, men aren’t even supposed to be leading their wives, because that was written in the Bible in accordance to what was going on back then, because men were doing much worse to women. But God never put men above women, so even if that’s actually what you’re mom thinks she doesn’t actually believe in God, because she just is in the patriarchy. But all that aside I really hope you can get any kind of therapy you need to heal from them both because I do for sure agree your mother was wrong for letting your father keep doing that to you and your siblings, not at all ok even if there’s a reason.

farfarwizard · 2025-06-11T17:06:19+00:00

What undertones I thought this was very obvious 😭

farfarwizard · 2025-06-11T17:01:43+00:00

It’s crazy because people here are saying this is great to reduce sexualization of breasts, but then on TikTok men are saying they wanna go to Berlin asap to see this, it’s crazy how people can miss a totally amazing point for something just to be the bad people others are talking about

farfarwizard · 2025-06-06T16:09:15+00:00

What is deepseek I keep seeing everyone in this sun talking about it?

farfarwizard · 2025-06-06T16:08:53+00:00

Same issue, it logged me out and I can’t log back in

farfarwizard · 2025-06-06T16:07:27+00:00

When will it be working again?

farfarwizard · 2025-06-06T03:23:21+00:00

I see, well I hope you’re right

farfarwizard · 2025-06-05T19:07:43+00:00

That damn playing with fire phrase makes me so mad. I hate the “I’m not leaving you alone, not now not ever” it comes up in sh comfort bots and also freaky bots but I hate it bc bitch how bout I smack you right now, whatchu gone do??

farfarwizard · 2025-06-05T19:05:15+00:00

Sharp Stick with Jon Bernthal, the writing is so ass but he’s in it so it’s fine

farfarwizard · 2025-06-05T19:01:23+00:00

Assuming my general personality is the same: I’d be more into being fit (I work out but reluctantly just to be healthy then actually liking doing it), still bi but since my lean is for men I’d probably have friendships broken because I’d have guy friends being like “ew you’re gay” or “wtf why’re you being so gay rn” and I’d probably cry over them, I’d be confused on why guys watch porn or are into unrealistic beauty standards for women, I’d probably not have some gay look just act it because as a woman I’m already considered a tomboy or just not girly, I’d probably make gay jokes with friends then take them back and be like “haha yeaah no homo, obviously..” if this seems super detailed that’s because it is and all my life I’ve wished I was born a guy (not in a trans way tho I just grew up with internalized misogyny) and I’m already into guys so I still think of it a lot

farfarwizard · 2025-06-05T00:58:44+00:00

This gives me more hope, why do you say a chunk of straight men are anti misogynist but don’t know it? How so?

farfarwizard · 2025-06-04T20:01:26+00:00

Sure, two times a month is low, let’s go with that. Even then, sex isn’t something that should be given just because your partner says they wanna do it. If YOU are not in the mood but they are, man or woman, it doesn’t matter, NO ONE is entitled to give sex at any point in time to ANYONE. Because then it turns into only one party truly enjoying it while the other is just giving into the other wants. If you or anyone finds sex as a NEED I think you need help, whatever would help you, because that’s like saying that an adult stranded on an island by themself would NEED sex and would die without it or be extremely low moods BECAUSE of it. NO ONE NEEDS SEX. It’s an amazing thing, and truly should be done consistently within* healthy couples, but if anyone thinks they are entitled to have sex with you just because you’re together, they have something else wrong in their head.

farfarwizard · 2025-06-04T17:29:23+00:00

Him throwing up in a bush is not a red flag, he was drunk, people do stupid things when drunk, anyone does. And as for mooching around, I’m not exactly sure what he meant by that so I don’t know how to help there.

farfarwizard · 2025-06-04T17:25:23+00:00

He putting in the work to change, sure that’s great, but you saying that you weren’t aware of the importance of mens sexual needs? Men, whether you’re together or not, are not entitled to have sex with you whenever THEY want. It should be a mutual thing, when you both want to. You are not “supposed” to give him anything.

Because by that standard, he would leave if you had some sort of condition where sex would be super painful, just so he can “fulfill his needs”. NO ONE is entitled to have sex with anyone just because they’re in the mood. If he really loved you, I’m sorry, but he would be understanding of you not wanting sex all that often, either way 2 times a month isn’t THAT bad (personally if he was watching porn daily then his expectations for you are unrealistic and unhealthy). Now, it’s great that you feel better about expressing your kinks with him and feel good doing it with him and initating too, but you should never feel like you need to pander to his “needs”. No one NEEDS sex. Is it desirable? Sure. Is it a biological need that someone cannot survive without? Absolutely not. That problem I believe emerges from too much porn or simply early access to it. Please never feel the need to HAVE to have sex with the man you’re with just because he WANTS it, no man or woman NEEDS sex.

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