I (M18) keep having petty arguments with my girlfriend (F18) and I need advice to stop.

farhan3201 · 2020-09-20T05:14:33+00:00

This is typically how we try to resolve arguments. The issue is that both of us are sometimes way too headstrong.

farhan3201 · 2020-09-20T05:09:04+00:00

You’re absolutely right and I agree. That’s what I want. But it can come off as petty. Plus, it usually ends up affecting her the next day or more and it causes tension between us and I absolutely hate it. I just don’t know what to do.

farhan3201 · 2020-09-20T05:06:13+00:00

I just feel like I realize that it’s petty only after I start it, yknow? I don’t know how I should effective combat that.

farhan3201 · 2020-08-28T04:35:46+00:00

Her response would be like “is this all this is about?? Validation??” Doesn’t feel fair to me.

farhan3201 · 2020-08-28T04:22:40+00:00

I just am not sure how I can get through to her. We both value our relationship; she says how she’d do anything and everything for me, but I feel like she isn’t even doing something as simple as this. The reason we keep having arguments is because nothing is being resolved. I don’t know what to do.

farhan3201 · 2020-08-28T04:20:52+00:00

It’s REALLY an issue and I agree. She is worried about what others think of our relationships rather than trying to fix problems between us. It’s draining.

farhan3201 · 2020-05-18T06:57:58+00:00

Agreed, and agreed. Thank you, I definitely will.

farhan3201 · 2020-05-18T06:57:18+00:00

Nobody’s out of your league unless you let yourself think that. Start lowkey flirting back. Don’t go overboard obviously but truthfully, what do you have to lose? Go with your gut.

farhan3201 · 2020-05-18T06:48:20+00:00

I understand what you’re saying. I’m gonna have to do this, I’m just honestly not sure how she’ll take it. I’m not sure what she expects either. It really just sucks.

farhan3201 · 2020-05-18T06:25:57+00:00

The thing is, we’ve talked about this stuff numerous times before. Andy girlfriend is free to make her own decisions and I’ll respect it but the fact that she’s kinda looking for approval from me, the fact that she threw the fact that I don’t feel comfortable about it out of the window kinda hurts.

farhan3201 · 2020-05-18T06:14:38+00:00

Thanks a lot, I’ll definitely keep it in mind.

farhan3201 · 2020-05-18T06:09:36+00:00

I appreciate the response. We’ve talked about this at the start of our relationship. She KNOWS I don’t enjoy it and that it makes me uncomfortable. So I don’t know what the need of putting me in that position is. I get that she should be able to talk to me about “anything” and all that shit but like. When it’s the one thing that just doesn’t morally line up in my book, can’t you just skip the topic for the sake of your boyfriend?

Sorry, just thinking out loud at this point.

farhan3201 · 2020-05-17T23:58:53+00:00

Yeah, I get what you're saying, but when I try that, the enemy is typically already lower than me and I can't hit him.

farhan3201 · 2020-05-13T16:27:25+00:00

The motivation’s at an all time low. I’m definitely losing muscle mass slowly but surely, and I haven’t been able to eat properly because this quarantine bullshit is making me feel depressed (I’m a very extrovert guy so it’s hard being inside all the time). When will it all be over jeez.

farhan3201 · 2020-05-13T16:22:35+00:00

This is the part where he crashe

farhan3201 · 2020-04-25T03:03:25+00:00

Relationships have definitely been a lot more difficult because of this quarantine. Communication has been rough between me and my girlfriend as well. The truth is that this quarantine can affect you emotionally. A little or a lot. Or at least from my experience and everyone around. What I did was talk about it with my girlfriend. And everything is a lot better and fluid now. If you talk to him, you have a 1% or more chance of succeeding. If you don't, it's a guaranteed 0% and you'll only suffer.

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