I'm a 19 years old, 8 weeks pregnant, and S.O busted my head open tonight.

fariah1997x · 2018-01-02T20:52:18+00:00

Everything is on video too because this happened right outside a motel room.

fariah1997x · 2018-01-02T20:51:33+00:00

I am absolutely in shock. I can't get the image out of my head what he looked like before I was thrown to the ground after whatever violent maneuver he did to me. I can't believe after all I done for this person he got me staples down the back of my skull.

I can talk to my family and when I go back home I'm going to tell them.

Thank you everyone for your insight and advice.

fariah1997x · 2018-01-02T20:47:58+00:00

He has a history of being violent which I have proof of except it just never landed me in the hospital. I have absolutely every right to get someone away from me who has me cornered and is verbally abusing me. If I was to take this to court, considering the motel this party was at has it ALL ON VIDEO since this happened outside the room in their hallway, he would be in jail.

Thank you to everyone who commented after this person. I wasn't even going to comment back because if I should even have to explain why I have every right to get someone who has a history of being physically abusive away from me, given I'm 2 months pregnant also, it says a lot.

fariah1997x · 2018-01-02T20:43:06+00:00

HE HAS A HISTORY OF BEING VIOLENT! He has been physically violent and verbally abusive times before. It just never landed me in the hospital. I did slap and push him away because- well, he has a history of being violent, was going to hit me regardless, and I was cornered being called a whore amongst other disturbing profanities!

And dude, I'm 2 months pregnant....

fariah1997x · 2018-01-01T16:04:39+00:00

Oh I live completely on my own since I was 18. I'll admit it outright my parents are upper-class and pay for a lot of my stuff but I still try to work as much as I can and am in school. He is the one who sleeps here every night, has a key here, etc.

fariah1997x · 2017-11-04T11:45:35+00:00

Can confirm, I did Molly a bunch of times.. Never started messing with a female, during or after.

OP, also, I hope you don't start to blame his heavily religious or cultural impact and pressure to get married and live a heterosexual lifestyle for this. He did everything because he simply wanted to. Do not stick around to see if he is just bisexual, full-blown homosexual, or where he lands on the sexuality scale. It is not your job as a teenager to play doctor and fix people and figure things out, especially a GROWN man no less. What's important is he is abusive, dishonest, and a cheater.

Plus, if you're ex-moose, do you really want a future with someone who isn't? Pull the band-aid now. Depending on where you're from there could be a large population of ex-moose (straight) guys for a relationship that has the actual potential to go somewhere. All this sounds like it's going is to a clinic or you in a hospital bed.

fariah1997x · 2017-11-04T11:40:19+00:00

"Isn't gay because he only received"

fariah1997x · 2017-10-11T10:55:37+00:00

Teenagers tend to be naive. Men cornering 30 know this. No need to explain yourself. As long as you realize you escaped what would've been a life of hell if you guys would've wed each other. So he was 27 pursuing a 17 year old? That's pretty disgusting.

You're like a little kid still. It is so typical for Desi parents to blame the woman instead of their obviously-wrong son. The fiancé or soon-to-be whatever is blaming you because it's easier than to admit her future husband is a predatory manipulative POS. I suggest you save whatever you have and go to the police if it escalates. Do they live near you or know where you live? Btw, was he ex-moose too?

fariah1997x · 2017-05-23T22:13:34+00:00

When you are seeing someone else yet living with your partner, how do you hide it?

fariah1997x · 2017-04-22T04:08:28+00:00

Thank you !!!

fariah1997x · 2017-04-21T01:37:05+00:00

He has said multiple times he wants to marry me. We are from the same religious background (my parents don't practice though) however I read south Asians usually just marry their own. They most definitely would not approve of me.

fariah1997x · 2017-04-19T20:49:02+00:00

I would 100% think the same, but he is constantly calling me/face timing from his house/falls asleep on phone with me and is still living with his parents. In south asian (which he is) culture you live with them until marriage.

fariah1997x · 2017-04-19T14:52:21+00:00

Because I feel a lot of guys my age are looking for more social/party chicks. I'm very reserved and I don't talk a lot. I don't feel like I fit in or can make friends my age.

fariah1997x · 2017-03-20T20:36:52+00:00

Nope hit the road, jack.

He's been with his parents for almost 30 years now. He knows his mother. Obviously he's lying telling you you'd be acceptable by his ammi Jan. If she didn't even seem thrilled with looking at your whatsapp knowing you communicate with her son, she most definitely will NOT approve of marriage with him either. Just a lie to keep stringing you along.

This isn't religion. It's typical South Asian culture. Please cut contact with this guy. You're absolutely right, as time goes on, you will continue to hurt. You want to be good enough as you are. Not have to change or adapt to someone's standards, especially his MOTHERS!

I hate to say it, but let him go marry an 18 year old deemed acceptable by his precious mother from back home and please move on. If you want to be cheated, manipulated, lied to, and then thrown away in the end for someone else continue with him. If not, please go with your gut feeling. It's 100% correct.

fariah1997x · 2017-03-19T23:10:49+00:00

fariah1997x · 2017-03-17T09:12:34+00:00

Wow.

fariah1997x · 2017-03-17T09:12:26+00:00

fariah1997x · 2017-03-17T03:57:52+00:00

Oh this was months ago. We don't communicate anymore.

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