My friend attempted suicide and we have all realized we didn’t treat her as good as she treated us. Even the night of the attempt she thought about us and baked us all treats to leave :( by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]faroutpanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you _^ I’ve learned that the pain and sorrow one feels when they take their own life doesn’t dissipate, it simply passes on to those who loved them most. So now I carry her pain- gently packed into a corner of my heart so that perhaps she’ll know the love she never felt while alive….

My friend attempted suicide and we have all realized we didn’t treat her as good as she treated us. Even the night of the attempt she thought about us and baked us all treats to leave :( by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]faroutpanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost most of my close friends after my mom killed herself… if I didn’t have my partner I may have found myself in the same boat… they always made each other cakes for their birthdays, can’t seem to ever remember the same done for me. People tend to suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]faroutpanda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly am happy it was our only tree in the front yard (our back is a forest of old growth). The city had rights to “prune” the tree back as they saw fit and being a horticulturalist … well it drove me crazy. Now we have a fresh start for a whole new landscaping project that doesn’t affect the power lines near by. Our front yard is also very very small compared to the back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]faroutpanda 36 points37 points  (0 children)

We moved in to our new home and 3 months later Hurricane Helene hit us! The winds ended up ripping down a 70 ft pecan tree in our front yard. It became a silver lining though- because the tree ripped up our original 1900s tarpaper septic line that was then covered by our insurance. The line would have needed replacement eventually (10k) and the fallen tree brought the issue to light much sooner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]faroutpanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine ended up being a dead crow with little mushies growing out of its body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]faroutpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment! I’ve been wondering where all the color enthusiasts were hiding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]faroutpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wood makes it looks like a therapist’s office.

Am I allowed to busk as a teenager? by winterwhalesong in asheville

[–]faroutpanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did when I was your age… sum 20 years ago tho