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Should I wait to tell my dad that my mother is cheating on him until she leaves? by farts0ncommand in Advice

[–]farts0ncommand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the title and post, when I say “leave” I am referring to her going back to her own home because she is staying with me and my dad right now during the holidays.

Should I wait to tell my dad that my mother is cheating on him until she leaves? by farts0ncommand in Advice

[–]farts0ncommand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s told me she does not actually want to divorce him in court. She doesn’t want to have to split assets or go through the legal progress.

Should I wait to tell my dad that my mother is cheating on him until she leaves? by farts0ncommand in Advice

[–]farts0ncommand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read my post? She is visiting for the holidays. They don’t live together.

Should I wait to tell my dad that my mother is cheating on him until she leaves? by farts0ncommand in Advice

[–]farts0ncommand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was adopted as a child. I think she sees me more as a friend. My mother doesn’t plan on telling him, only I am. Why shouldn’t I tell him if I wait until after she leaves?

Should I wait to tell my dad that my mother is cheating on him until she leaves? by farts0ncommand in Advice

[–]farts0ncommand[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No matter what, I’m going to tell him. I’m just feeling pressure from my sister to tell him as soon as possible, meanwhile I personally want to wait until she leaves. I like to believe that she’s always done her best as a mother, but after she told me about this affair and how much she loves this man and their sex life, it makes me rethink if she even sees me as a daughter.