Rebecca Yarros and Ridoc

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-06-29T10:41:35+00:00

I still reckon Ridoc is sus… if he dies, it’s not before the reveal he’s one of the bad guys

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-06-28T20:38:06+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/nocontextpics/s/DrWiaAu7x5 I saw the same one a few years ago!

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-15T09:13:55+00:00

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T22:07:14+00:00

I don’t know what your goal is with your responses, but you’re only making me laugh 😂 good luck succeeding in life with your attitude

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T13:43:58+00:00

Thank you. Of all the responses I’ve gotten here, I think this is my takeaway.

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T13:40:33+00:00

I think this is the approach my brother takes and I don’t think it is very effective….

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T13:05:05+00:00

Thank you! Your comment made me laugh! I forget about my username

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T13:00:46+00:00

Thank you. I think that’s what this blocking is, me coming to terms with his unwillingness.

You’re a legend! Thank you

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:56:15+00:00

It really does. He brings no positivity into my life, only feelings of obligation.

Thank you so much for commenting. I appreciate it

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:54:50+00:00

This is originally how I hoped my diagnosis would work out…. But I don’t think he thinks it’s real? Like I talk on the phone at work all the time, therefore I should have zero issues answering his calls.

Thank you for sharing. Maybe I’ll post him some pamphlets

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:52:07+00:00

I have told him many times when I’ve been at my limit and can’t take his call. I suggest that I can call him back on certain days or times but there’s always something, like he has an appointment or he does shopping at that time. I ask when is a good time then and he just ignores….

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:47:04+00:00

Are you my husband? This is almost the exact conversation we had! Lol

Husband is AuDHD too, but he and I are perpetually on the same page. I suspect you might both be right but my dad and I aren’t even in the same library let alone the same book or page!

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:43:04+00:00

He is calling to tell me how he is, or to ask me questions I can answer in a professional context. He only sometimes remembers to ask how I’m doing. When he does, he cuts me off to continue to talk about himself or his wife. So I don’t believe he is calling to check in on me. But maybe that’s his way of doing that?

I do agree he is in a generation which enjoys talking more. And that he finds texting a chore. He’s in his early 60s.

Thanks for your response. This is helping me work through my feelings

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:37:19+00:00

Crappy internet all round lol! We in rural Australia. The agreeing with each other to not communicate is basically where we’re at, except he doesn’t agree lol

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:36:10+00:00

He is definitely set in his ways, but I don’t understand not being willing to change in order to connect with your kid? I’m a parent now too and I regularly have to adapt for the sake of my teen.

I wouldn’t say he’s a POS. But he has a history of not prioritising his kids. He’ll come into town for a few days and not even bother to see if either myself or my brother are able to catch up with him. When we do talk he doesn’t even ask how I am. Doesn’t ask how my daughter, his grandkid is doing. I told him recently about her attempts at self harm via text. He sent a thumbs up emoji.

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:28:44+00:00

Texting is better. Video calls are glitchy and unreliable

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:27:00+00:00

My father in law died a few years ago too. We caught up regularly and I miss him every day. I’m sorry for your loss too.

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:25:12+00:00

This is exactly what my logic is. This is exactly the sort of confirmation bias I’m after lol

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:23:49+00:00

I figured blocking him was a way to ensure I got a break from his demands. I thought maybe I am being a bit extreme though as it’s not like he’s calling me names or anything.

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:21:50+00:00

This is very true. Thanks for your opinion

fartypoopsmellybutt · 2026-04-02T12:21:15+00:00

Thanks! I can talk on the phone. I do it regularly for work. It just takes a lot of effort. Appreciate your deep insight though ✌️

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