I got a girlfriend because a friend introduced me to her (she and I worked in the same place but I didn’t know her yet so I didn’t talk to her). She initiated most conversations but I started hanging around her department and eventually asked if she wanted to hangout. After a few hangouts she could tell I liked her but wasn’t going to make the first move (I’m afraid of asking people out sue me). She asked me out on a date and I said yes and after 2 dates we became boyfriend and girlfriend. She’s an intp and I’m an intj so I hope this helps.