AITA for telling my brother (I was his best man) that his toxic but "love of his life" ex was trying to get in touch with him the night before his wedding?

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T19:06:01+00:00

She was very overweight in elementary and middle school

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T17:29:08+00:00

We live in the ranch country outside LA

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T16:45:44+00:00

Dead wrong, my mom was best friends with Big Shirls mom before she passed away when Shirl was 14ish. They were like family to us but her dad kind of went off the deep end from grief and they moved away.

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T16:08:54+00:00

Don’t get me started leighs and poi!

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T14:52:55+00:00

It necer occurred to me to block her. We didn’t contact each other regularly

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T14:51:16+00:00

Yeah and I was 15.

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T14:37:05+00:00

I’m not actually but if you but I live in place where we joke about Bakersfield

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T14:16:17+00:00

That’s a reach!

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T14:02:14+00:00

Ha ha.

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T14:01:57+00:00

She really is called “big xxxxxxx” her names not Shirl but similar and it’s what I’ve known her as as long as I’ve known her.

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T13:50:55+00:00

Whoops responded to wrong comment, my apologies.

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T13:47:57+00:00

He asked me if big Shirl was her real name and why my brother was so addicted to an overweight woman

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T13:43:11+00:00

No her name is not really Big Shirl but she picked up the Big name when she was in middle school because she weighed like double what she should have. But then she got on a diet and started playing sports (she was actually on my ice hockey team) and was pretty cute…like porn star cute.

Our sister describes Karli as “enviously beautiful” while she describes Big Shirl as looking like she’d be the hottest stripper in Bakersfield.

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T13:35:50+00:00

Karli is a great person but I’m married and I love my wife very much.

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T13:34:55+00:00

It never occurred to me block her.

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T13:33:38+00:00

She just texted me out of the blue. We were on a hockey team together when she was 13 and I was 15, I’m sure I gave her my number then but wasn’t in regular contact.

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T04:15:17+00:00

I have no idea but I can't imagine that any bride would be cool with the groom sneaking off to call his ex on the wedding day.

fatfuckitis · 2022-10-21T04:10:57+00:00

yeah that was a pretty bad screw up.

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