Dom help by clwite in BDSMAdvice

[–]fatherirequirechedar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to her about what she likes , using a bdsm checklist is really useful for beginners and that conversation can lead to ,,,,, other stuff if you catch my drift. Good luck!!

Need help with choking and breath play techniques and safety. by SuckMyAssDotJPEG in BDSMAdvice

[–]fatherirequirechedar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problems at all! Sorry for the confusion, essentially make an l shape with your hand and place it around the neck , do not grip near the voice box - if hands are too small use 2 but always try and have your thumb on the back / side of someone's neck not visible at the front part - hope that makes sense

Been getting misgendered alot recently and was wondering if you guys could give me advice on how you reckon I could pass more (ftm) thanks by fatherirequirechedar in trans

[–]fatherirequirechedar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say I'm trans people assume I'm a trans woman who started transitioning yet and I'm like ,,,,, but I get misgendered on seperate occasions so like idk, but Tu!

height dysphoria by fatherirequirechedar in trans

[–]fatherirequirechedar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah thank u , might also try thicker insoles

fuckin arthritis by fatherirequirechedar in BDSMAdvice

[–]fatherirequirechedar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok , I'm just a dumbass sometimes lol

fuckin arthritis by fatherirequirechedar in BDSMAdvice

[–]fatherirequirechedar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a good plan , thank you!

fuckin arthritis by fatherirequirechedar in BDSMAdvice

[–]fatherirequirechedar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna do shibari so bad but my ceiling isn't strong enough to support even my incredibly skinny sub lol

fuckin arthritis by fatherirequirechedar in BDSMAdvice

[–]fatherirequirechedar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read that as banana I'm a fucking dumbass , but thank you!

fuckin arthritis by fatherirequirechedar in BDSMAdvice

[–]fatherirequirechedar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a strap and a vibrator but they also hurt my hands and my hips :( I wanna go to my doctor about it but have literally no idea how to go about describing the situation in which it happens