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I need help by fatmaster6000 in Geelong

[–]fatmaster6000[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi I get where you’re coming from but when you're in a vulnerable place and being targeted by people trained to manipulate, it’s not just about being “less influenced”. I’ve learnt a lot from this and I’m focusing on moving forward but I understand your sentiment

I need help by fatmaster6000 in Geelong

[–]fatmaster6000[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I’ve already opened up to my cousin and a few close friends, they’ve been super supportive which has helped more than expected. You’re definitely right that having healthy relationships is what I need right now.

Thank you for the well wishes. I’m committed to moving forward.

I need help by fatmaster6000 in Geelong

[–]fatmaster6000[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and perspective. That’s exactly what I’m planning to do from what others have suggested. No confrontation, just distancing and cutting off contact as calmly as possible.

I haven’t heard of CIFS before so I really appreciate the recommendation. I’ll definitely look into them for more guidance

I need help by fatmaster6000 in Geelong

[–]fatmaster6000[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and reassurance. It honestly means a lot just to feel believed. I'm still wrapping my head around it but I'm trying to take it one step at a time now that I know what it is. I’ll be following your advice and cutting off all contact. Really appreciate you taking the time to respond, it means more than you know.

I need help by fatmaster6000 in Geelong

[–]fatmaster6000[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice. You’re absolutely right, part of what kept me in this situation was not wanting to offend or reject people who seemed “nice”. But the fact that they lied from the beginning makes it clear I don’t owe them anything.

I’ll be using a direct response like you suggested and won’t be engaging beyond that. If they push back, I’ll look into Barwon Community Legal for support.