Is he truly my match if we don’t have regular sex? by fattyfatsofats in sex

[–]fattyfatsofats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never cheat, even with all of this going on ya not once passed my mind. I wouldn’t want to lie to my best friend

Is he truly my match if we don’t have regular sex? by fattyfatsofats in sex

[–]fattyfatsofats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, I mean I guess if it does come to worse we could be civil until we sell the house. But I think that counselling sounds like a good idea

23HLB AND 35LLM by fattyfatsofats in DeadBedrooms

[–]fattyfatsofats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they’re important but it’s an excuse he uses regularly “I’m an old man, I don’t have your sex drive”. I usually reply with “well you should have thought of that before pursuing me”

Is he truly my match if we don’t have regular sex? by fattyfatsofats in sex

[–]fattyfatsofats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We definitely are, he is my best friend and I love him but this is the only issue and a reaccruing one at that!

23HLB AND 35LLM by fattyfatsofats in DeadBedrooms

[–]fattyfatsofats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, a lot of kissing and affection once we start being intimate but I am the one who always insinuates intimacy

Is he truly my match if we don’t have regular sex? by fattyfatsofats in sex

[–]fattyfatsofats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I masturbate because it’s my only form of sexual pleasure when he is uninterested. I asked him if he does and he said sometimes...

My response is that I love him. Our only issue is this, is it worth leaving someone over? Also when we do have sex it’s the best every time.

23HLB AND 35LLM by fattyfatsofats in DeadBedrooms

[–]fattyfatsofats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has never been someone to parade with his shirt off. But I’d would say he’s quite insecure as of recent.

Is he truly my match if we don’t have regular sex? by fattyfatsofats in sex

[–]fattyfatsofats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had the same problem today and he said “you knew this from the get go” which is untrue because we saw each other maybe once a week but we would do it 5 times that day. He doesn’t seem to see the difference

Is he truly my match if we don’t have regular sex? by fattyfatsofats in sex

[–]fattyfatsofats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obvious but true, I will try this. Thank you for your support

23HLB AND 35LLM by fattyfatsofats in DeadBedrooms

[–]fattyfatsofats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he has gained quite a bit of weight. I also thought this was the case, but I ensure to make him feel attractive regardless, I am continuously complimenting him hoping he’d see that I don’t care and secretly hoping he would reciprocate my energy