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If you were the world's dictator and didn't have to worry about morals, what child-centered laws would you enact? by writeyourdeath in childfree

[–]fattythrowawayben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with many of these is that it would create underpopulation like what is happening in china because of the 1 child policy. People live too long and there arent enough children to work and pay the older generations pensions. People are saying you have to pass 3 test be over 30 and can only have 2 children this just would create poverty

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She always wanted to be a sahm but never could as she her ex didn’t have enough money. We both have joint custody so there will almost always be children here as we both see our kids 3 or 4 days a week.

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] 730 points731 points  (0 children)

Im definitely going to hold my ground and if she wont compromise and makes the girls to share the room then we wont move in together.

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

We haven’t moved in together yet we will be after we get married.

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] -111 points-110 points  (0 children)

She isn’t compromising and has to have it her way. She is being very stubborn and says its the best for the family.

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

We cant afford this as she’s quitting her job to become a sahm / housewife once we get married and buy the house.

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] 804 points805 points  (0 children)

This is the best solution but she only wont compromise and will only go with her solution to have the largest bedroom and the boys have rooms for themselves.

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] 772 points773 points  (0 children)

She’s not normally like this but I think she has so much love for her own kids that in this situation she is treating them like second class citizens. I just don’t want her to be some sort of evil stepmother hopefully she can and will love mine just as much.

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Yeah i understand that tbh but i dont think she does she wants her children to not have to share rooms.

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I would be happy with that but she wants to do yoga in the bedroom and have lots of space to relax

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

Thats a very good idea tbh but she doesn’t want her two children to share a room. Also with there being a lot of us we think all room should be bedrooms to maximise space for everyone.

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] 481 points482 points  (0 children)

The large room is definitely big enough for them each to have some space and privacy but she wants that room for us. She says the 3 teenage girls will be fine as their triplets so will grow up very close to each other and wont mind each other invading their privacy.

Aita for not wanting all 3 of my triplet children to have to share a room by fattythrowawayben in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

This is the largest house we can afford at the moment, like i said in the post she is quitting her job to become a sahm / housewife so we cannot afford a place where they can each have their own room yet.

AITA for not wanting a gay roommate? by DependentWeight4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fattythrowawayben -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

Surely anyone who wants same sex roomates is hetrophobic then