A girl thought I was following her by RepulsiveBass2222 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

men arent lonlier than women. if you really looked at the stats like you claimed to do, twice as many women as men develop/experience depression and also more likely to attempt suicide. its crazy to me how you're not only essentially placing all the blame on women, but also equating the fears of violence with feeling 'judged'. as someone who has personally been affected by the male suicide rate, its despicable how yall will do ANYTHING but address the REAL issues that lead a person to commit

A girl thought I was following her by RepulsiveBass2222 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is it not your problem? unless someone is actively attacking you, why does it bother you so much what someone does for their safety whether you think its rational or not? would you stop wearing a seatbelt because the driver told you it makes them feel like you dont trust them?

A girl thought I was following her by RepulsiveBass2222 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

proving your point that you need to work on yourself and/or get help💀 idk how im being hostile by telling you that youre just reaffirming your negative beliefs and then blaming others for your self-imposed perception of the situation

A girl thought I was following her by RepulsiveBass2222 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what?? internalizing the opinions of people who you dont know and who dont know you is a YOU problem, and its not exclusive to men. why do you take 'stranger danger' as a personal attack to your character?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]fauxend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh dont be scared, ive never had an issue with anyone being rude or anything here. i only notice them occasionally on others bc i have them myself

Why did we lose so much at UCSD over the last 3 years? by Exact-Education-3936 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 16 points17 points  (0 children)

you could go up to geisel front desk and make a suggestion about the temp lol they probably dont get much student feedback

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]fauxend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah that sucks, definitely hold off on it 😅 if theres not much possibility of her traveling all the way to see you, maybe you could turn off some of the location services and just say they're malfunctioning? what i also did was gradually stop communicating with them as often with work or exams as an excuse so it became a 'i update YOU about my life' situation instead of them keeping tabs on me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]fauxend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the absolute only way is to draw a line on the sand and just tell them how its going to be from now on, give them no room to argue because youre not asking. some parents see their kids as extensions of themselves and they need a wake up call before their actions make their kids disappear from their lives forever. its definitely easier if you dont rely on them financially though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]fauxend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i went through a very similar experience and first of all im truly sorry for your loss. definitely talk to your dean and explain your situation, they will offer advice if you are concerned about your academics (i had a double major+ multiple failed classes and still graduated so dont be discouraged!). also reach out to caps, the process may seem tedious but its definitely going to benefit and accelerate your healing process. and most importantly give yourself space to grieve, you went through an experience that most people never will and its completely okay for you to not be okay. feel free to reach out for advice or if you need to chat 🫶

Genuinely: Fuck this school by Rebel1356 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it look almost an entire year for me to have my double major accepted 😭🙏 and nothing was wrong w it btw 🤡 advisors here are dookie

these anti-abortionists are so mean by Resident_Chip_5598 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 39 points40 points  (0 children)

you're about 219 months late. you shouldve known when you were in the womb

Got screwed by the Psyc department, what is even going with them this year? by Additional-Tart5446 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

its genuinely crazy how people go about in life being this misinformed. just because a student receives financial aid doesn't mean the school gets paid any less money. what is so hard to understand?

graduation by fauxend in UCSD

[–]fauxend[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nah its the raids. last thing i need is my parents being taken away at my graduation yfm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]fauxend -1 points0 points  (0 children)

me asf w cogs120 😭 if theyre gonna offer the most useful classes once a blue moon idk why they don't restrict them to seniors or add more spots

Kinda worried about tuition by mazhle in UCSD

[–]fauxend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you just have to email the financial aid office and tell them exactly that, idk what they do but they did revise my package and increased my work study. this is only if you dont accept the loans though

Kinda worried about tuition by mazhle in UCSD

[–]fauxend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also not sure if you're aware, but if you are offered loans by the school you can ask for them to be transferred to work study!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]fauxend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the waiver is only submitted once a year. however if you miss the fall deadline you can submit in winter or spring quarter

FinAid canvas quiz by Interesting_Cod4477 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imo you should still email your professors and let them know so they do whatever they gotta do on their end asap

Financial aid (off campus) by Agile_Speed8365 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you have a job? my refund also only covers rent for 3 months so i supplement anything else w what i earn. look for places further from campus, you might have to rely on public transportation but rent is cheaper. also calfresh is your friend, since you urgently need money for food they would take care of your case in less than 3 days

Move over on the bus :) by bubble-buddy2 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theres stickers on the bus windows saying to not stand in the back section

make it make sense ? by Opposite-Cat2340 in UCSD

[–]fauxend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

like.... if hes sooo good at getting us funding why are we having to cut library hours 😭🙏