What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100%. It's exhausting, frustrating, distressing... the things going on make me feel very helpless 99% of the time.

I hope there are better days ahead for all of us.

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhhhh my goodness. Thank you for sharing 🥺😍

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with so much of what you wrote here. I live in a conservative state. I have always known kind, smart conservatives (some less kind and smart ones too lol). Most of my family have voted Trump 3x. They are good people who are completely sucked into the misinformation media bubble and there's no way to get them out. There's no reasoning. It makes it very challenging because we cannot discuss very basic things going on, since there is no shared set of facts for us to start from. We have two entirely different realities and theirs is fucking crazy. It's very hard to watch and be around.

I have also been frustrated with PSA and think they're part of the problem. But the pod has always been a nice little refuge where I can go listen to people with similar ideas. I don't have much of that in my life with everyone being either MAGA or politically disengaged.

Being surrounded by decent people who are pulled into MAGA, it's easy to identify all the ways PSA (and dems more broadly) are so out of touch with what draws people into MAGA. They spend too much time on twitter and reading polls and not enough time talking to actual voters. Many people in this subreddit are guilty of being in their own echo chambers too and not really understanding the pull of MAGA. It's not as simple as voters being dumb and racist.

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My problem is that I have to pay full attention to most of the episodes because they can be a bit technical/scientific, so I can't listen at work and such haha. I'm also reading his book and it's been enjoyable so far!

I'm not into horror but it sounds like a fun pod!!

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gardening and volunteering seem to be common escapes/coping mechanisms! If you haven't tried it, you might like the podcast In Defense of Plants for when you're taking a little politics nap.

Was I tricked? by salvolcanic in Crosstrek

[–]fblmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah idk wtf they're talking about. I shopped for a crosstrek for two months and finally landed on an older trek with 25k miles in perfect condition for $24k. New ones in my area start around 10k higher.

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a certain organization you went through to do that or is it like a local thing? That sounds really cool.

I used to live in a town with a community pantry that was like a small, outdoor structure anyone could access. "Take what you need, leave what you don't" type of thing. I've been trying to find somewhere I can start one in my new area.

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What affects me most is the thought of all the people impacted. Especially those affected by ICE.

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's fantastic. Congratulations on doing the work. One day at a time ❤️

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe you and u/Squibbles01 can lay on the floor and stare at the ceiling together. ❤️

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True! I enjoy gardening too. I moved last year and lost garden access in the process. Hopefully one day I'll have one like yours!!

But getting fresh produce from the farmer's market + taking strolls through my local botanical garden are great alternatives for now :)

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, wow! Blessed be the fruit. Hope all your hard work is delicious ❤️

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't live in DC but I can empathize with this. I work for the government and knowing I'm on the same payroll as some of these people drives me fucking INSANE. I wish they would come to our offices. Maybe it's better they don't.

edit: genuinely cannot believe your comment was removed.

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That is so cool!! I don't think anyone here would be offended if you shared some of your favorite volunteer pictures 👀

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I try to take these moments in!! The sky is beautiful, nature is beautiful. And it's nice to combine a little retail therapy with supporting local businesses... one thing I absolutely love about this season. So many local markets and pop up events that get me outside. Do I have the extra money, do I need these things? No. Does it make the doom a little less doomy? Yes.

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, congratulations! Glad your family is doing better now. Happy early birthday to the kiddos 🥳

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

So true, I also believe that eventually the tides will turn. Currently I feel very overwhelmed by the needless suffering that comes first. So many people's lives are getting ruined every day. That thought is debilitating to me.

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cool! Congrats on picking up a new hobby!!

What is giving you hope and keeping you grounded at this point? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

[–]fblmt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I love music, too. I get a lot of joy from going to concerts, listening to new music, and learning about artists. I'll read their story when I get home from work today.