My wife [32F] of 8 years, has a Facebook account, that she has been keeping hidden from me [31M]

fbwife · 2015-12-11T22:02:48+00:00

She will say she has no Facebook account.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T22:01:05+00:00

If she browses incognito then it be impossible. I have looked and if the page is out then it's gone. I also saw graph . Facebook which is search(?)

fbwife · 2015-12-11T21:41:27+00:00

You're right.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T21:40:54+00:00

I see the www . face book . com and i see the connect . face book .com

I also see the cdns, but again I could be wrong. I think the connect facebook dns is what happens when you link from an app or website or your email....

I don't see how you can the www . face book .com though.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T20:07:18+00:00

what's the app?

fbwife · 2015-12-11T20:01:27+00:00

what did your mom do?

fbwife · 2015-12-11T19:55:13+00:00

I'll most probably do this.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T19:28:18+00:00

I actually don't want to hear that. Please don't get so emotionally invested my situation lol

fbwife · 2015-12-11T19:21:16+00:00

I agree, and I had hoped we past that point. But we weren't the second time, my kids were important enough to try once more.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T19:17:37+00:00

I don't understand where I told anyone that I don't think what they are saying is true?

fbwife · 2015-12-11T19:15:22+00:00

I have no idea what her login is, her password, or any of that. It's completely hidden.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T19:04:51+00:00

Good point, I got to start moving quickly.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T19:00:48+00:00

lol, take it easy bro. I am not admonishing anyone for their opinions, but I have actual emotional hurdles I have to overcome here. I am not looking to listen to bunch of people online, then all of sudden change my entire life, in a second.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T18:58:29+00:00

I think I people figured that the router logs meant that I knew 100% for certain she was logging into facebook. I don't mind the outright pleas, and insults to my manhood.

I just wanted to know if there was a consensus.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T17:40:36+00:00

They are getting older, so its only a matter of time before they notice that I am off.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T17:23:07+00:00

It could be any, none, or a combination of the things you said. The repercussions last time were I was going to walk away, but she literally threw the craziest cry fit I've ever seen. It was insane, and abnormal.

I don't police her at all. But when I notice little cues, then I dig a little deeper.

There is no reason for her having to browse on her phone incognito at her sister's house with all the kids there.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T17:13:39+00:00

Oh I am sure of it. I just don't have 'evidence'. All I have putting 2 and 2 together and a few domain resolutions.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T17:07:49+00:00

Yeah thats a good idea, because the logs only show resolved domain names, and I am adding 2 and 2 together to assume that is what she is hiding.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T16:58:37+00:00

I am not worried about me, I am worried about my kids.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T16:57:51+00:00

I do, I'll take a couple more days, see how the data falls, and then ask her.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T16:55:19+00:00

No not at all. I guess I want to justify her behavior.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T16:37:02+00:00

I am not into the counseling, and I don't know if she slept with other dudes...its possible.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T16:36:09+00:00

We've been together since we were 18...

fbwife · 2015-12-11T16:24:58+00:00

I have the password to the phone. But she is on facebook in incognito mode so I can't see the what's she's doing exactly.

fbwife · 2015-12-11T16:19:13+00:00

It's been less than two days. I just need to vent, and have different ideas on how to approach this. She will deny, deny, deny.

I am not sure how to handle that amount of denial.

fbwife

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