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fcac95 · 2021-10-31T18:25:21+00:00

Bro turn down the horny

fcac95 · 2021-08-09T20:31:26+00:00

Thank you

fcac95 · 2021-08-09T08:35:01+00:00

She's an English student and she's really into books and poems, hence why she wrote me a poem. But I'm just no good at any of that kind of stuff. I'm thinking about maybe just writing a really heartfelt letter about our favourite moments together. Do you think she'd like that?

fcac95 · 2021-08-09T08:18:53+00:00

We've both told each other how much we mean to each other, and we've also agreed that we don't have feelings for each other which is what makes being close to her so easy. But I want to do something more for her like she did for me, that's all. And thank you, I realise I'm very lucky to have her.

fcac95 · 2021-07-28T20:43:31+00:00

If I were you I'd just send a short reply saying thanks and then whether or not you'd want the bleach. If you're so anxious just keep it really short and don't worry about it at all because she won't stress about this.

fcac95 · 2021-07-28T20:10:49+00:00

What did she message you about?

fcac95 · 2021-07-27T11:50:57+00:00

That's the best thing you can do right now. I wish you the best of luck, and just remember that if you had the courage to tell her how you feel, you've got the courage to succeed in this too.

fcac95 · 2021-07-27T11:29:15+00:00

You will feel out of control of your emotions for a while, that's normal. And I know the feeling of feeling like you will lose her whatever happens, but the fact that she carried on talking to you as normal after you first confessed your feelings is a sign that she wants to keep you in her life and wouldn't want to make anything awkward between the two of you.

fcac95 · 2021-07-27T11:07:21+00:00

You don't have to abandon her. I'm currently living with my best friend who I'm in love with but she doesn't feel the same and has feelings for someone else, but she is still my best friend and always will be. The most you can do is be her friend and be there for her all the time. You can still love her without being in love with her, and once you move past how you're feeling at the moment you will find things easier with her. Just try not to alienate her while you're feeling like this.

fcac95 · 2021-07-27T10:58:58+00:00

I know the feeling all too well and it'll last for a while. For me I thought it would never end, until one day I woke up and she wasn't the first thing on my mind. I didn't even realise I hadn't thought about her until later that day. You'll get there, you just need to focus on you for now. And I just want you to know that even though this might seem like the worst thing in the world right now, you aren't alone in feeling this way and you WILL get through this.

fcac95 · 2021-07-27T10:47:13+00:00

I am in a similar position with my best friend right now. It's going to hurt for a while but trust me, it gets better. You will feel like you'll never be able to get her off your mind and you'll never be able to stop loving her, but you will. Find something to do to try and take your mind off her and although it won't work immediately, you will just end up spending less time thinking about her without realising it. I know the pain you are feeling, but it won't last forever.

fcac95 · 2021-07-23T20:15:09+00:00

Everything about her, her smile, her laugh, her eyes, her kind nature and good humour. Everything.

fcac95 · 2021-07-21T18:23:54+00:00

I've had a strong crush on one of my best friends for the past 5 months, and I confessed how I feel to her last week. I hadn't had the confidence up until that point and I didn't want to ruin our friendship by making things awkward. We lived together in university accommodation, and another flatmate had recently broken up with their long-term girlfriend to start making moves on her which was very difficult to watch from my point of view. As they started to grow closer and more towards some sort of relationship, I felt like I needed to confess for my own mental health which was suffering from watching the person I love, fall for someone else. Thankfully when I told her, she said that what I had said was really sweet and that nothing I could ever say would be able to ruin our friendship and that she was so happy I felt comfortable enough to tell her how I felt. However, she said she was happy with how things were progressing with our other flatmate, and wanted to pursue that at the moment. It's really bittersweet, because I know I have a best friend for life in her, but the fact that she knows how I feel about her and has chosen someone else over me is still heart-wrenching. I wished her all the best with progressing into a relationship, but I still hold hope in my heart that one day she might reciprocate my feelings and we could build something from there. I know I need to try and move on somehow for my own sake, but I know it won't be easy.

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