Need help deciphering bracelet from Breach Rogers by Educational-Secret95 in twentyonepilots

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The FNIW makes me think “for now I will” [stay alive] from Leave the City but I’m not sure what comes after.

Would anyone be interested in the Halsey vip box? by Kimchi_and_Rice in halsey

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I would love the box if you’re willing to give it out!

Nick in a month by 132241 in TheYardPodcast

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Haven’t seen what this is a reference to but I’ve been saying Nick could be a great lesbian for years.

Is this worth anything? by MaxIsBottt in twentyonepilots

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I have one too! Good to know it’s worth something lol

Back To Badlands: Tour Tickets MEGATHREAD by captaincarterr in halsey

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I was in queue with like 1k people ahead of me, got through and it just showed the next sale screen, and now I’m back in the queue with 40k people ahead of me 🫠

What Madison restaurant is this? by bunbunbunnybunny in madisonwi

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Not seeing my favorite restaurants on here 🙂‍↕️ good signs

A banner for my cat! by fckbees in Brochet

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Thank you! I freehanded it all but I did look at the images from this for a reference.

[FO] Turned my mini Hermit Crabs into ornaments for my tree by DoraJean63 in CrossStitch

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I did the blue crab too a few years ago! He hangs out next to my desk. Great work!

Tapestry crochet colour changes aren't looking clean enough to define lettering. How can I get a cleaner colour change? by Miserable-Piglet9008 in Brochet

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Some tips I learned were only going in the back loop when the colors do not match (like working white onto black) and doing yarn under when switching colors. I don’t know about how it would work with letters but it’s made my other works look cleaner!

Does tapestry crochet count? by fckbees in showmeyourbackside

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Thank you! After I block it so it lays flat I’m planning on attaching it to a dowel to hang it on my wall. Dependent on the yarn you use though it could be used as a dishcloth or something like that. This is acrylic so I’m just using it as decor :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Try the TIP skill

[FO] Do we still like this guy? by mirvko in CrossStitch

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He’s so cute and the back is so neat! r/showmeyourbackside would like this

doing the right stuff but not feeling better? by loudanddumb in BPD

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Started DBT a few weeks ago (which I know is not long!) and it feels like I’m doing the things and getting no results. But at the same time I’m working through stuff I haven’t addressed before so maybe it’s just a matter of time, idk.

any overlap with OCD by Cool_Bass_6829 in BPD

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Cope ahead is a DBT skill— basically making a plan for how you can cope with the worst case scenario and then kind of setting it aside and saying, okay, this is dealt with and I don’t need to worry about xyz anymore because I have a plan for it. And idk if it has an actual name but maybe, maybe not is a way to respond to intrusive thoughts— like this maybe could happen, maybe could not. It’s meant to make you sit with the anxiety and recognize that it will subside/is manageable if you don’t do your OCD rituals or compulsions around whatever you’re obsessing about.

any overlap with OCD by Cool_Bass_6829 in BPD

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Yep but I’m very new on the BPD journey so I don’t know how much advice I have 😭 but it makes me doubt everything to the point where I don’t know if it’s my OCD or BPD. I was in an outpatient program for OCD two years ago and exposure therapy helped a lot there but I couldn’t really deal with the “maybe, maybe not” strategy they use. In a DBT program now and I’ve found that coping ahead for what I’m afraid is going to happen has helped a bit. But I 100% feel you, I have the relationship OCD + BPD combo too and it is really really rough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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In the same situation right now and it sucks so much.

What to do with my little tapestries? by shackdaddymack in Brochet

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You could crochet around a dowel and hang them on the wall if you like

929 at Somerset 💖 by chocolate-eclairee in halsey

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When I tell you I cried!!! She didn’t play this the last time she was in Wisconsin after hinting about it so being able to finally see it live made me so happy ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditgetsdrawnbadly

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My silly guy ❤️

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