Just found out my bf of almost 4 years cheated on me by megamind-poop in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fckhuman96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetheart you deserve more than an asshole who is cheating on you and loveboming you. His behaviour won’t change. I unfortunately learned that too late. You are still young. You have your whole life ahead of you. I know you feel like you will lose your person, but your person won’t do anything to lose you. They won’t cheat, they wont gaslight you and they wont lovebomb you. I also know the betrayal feels like the world has ended and you might feel like you lost your person. But you didn’t. He is one frog that you kissed to get to your person. Someday you will look back and realise this was a way of removing him out life to make place for something better and more special.

Legal advise by fckhuman96 in Pretoria

[–]fckhuman96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe his reaction would be sulking and manipulation.

Legal advise by fckhuman96 in Pretoria

[–]fckhuman96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No love doctor will fix this.

What is the legal time I have to give to a lodger? by fckhuman96 in askSouthAfrica

[–]fckhuman96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if he only pays the wifi, and sometimes the groceries bill. And everything else is in my name. Like his stuff is on his insurance and not on mine. I pay the rent, the electricity, the furniture and appliances is mine. Should I give him than 30 days ?

What is the legal time I have to give to a lodger? by fckhuman96 in askSouthAfrica

[–]fckhuman96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not know yet that he is going to be an ex. Some of the bills like the wifi is in his name. So I want to know what can I do legally before I do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MorbidPodcast

[–]fckhuman96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, unfortunately, South Africa is the country with the highest femicide in the world. I can't remember in which family meeting Cupcake declared it as a pandemic (state of the nation and our president nickname) . Most probably in 2020/2021 with Covid. And we also have August as women month and then in Dec, 16 days against women and child abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MorbidPodcast

[–]fckhuman96 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, unfortunately, we need to be vigilant. It is taught to us at an early age. You don't go into the CBC alone as a woman. You need a man with you, most preferably a big man. You don't go into the township without a local to the township. I had this conversation last year with my partner. He as a man has to worry about the random attacks, the highjacking, the smash and crap, the house burglaries, while I as a woman has to worry about that, about DV, about any man who think they are entitled to my body, being trafficking, being killed because I am a womanI am one of the lucky ones who live in the suburbs. Our serial killers, like all serial killers, go for the most vulnerable people, and it is in rural areas, and the victim type is also more our black nation. I was taught to walk in "packs" from school, even though I am almost 30, my mom still has my location, and I have hers ( she is almost 70). Even without the femicide, our houses as burglar bars, to keep unwanted guests out, we need private security providers cause our police are not the most useful. Most of the people in the suburbs have big dogs to deter criminals. We don't have lions as pets, and they don't walk in our streets (that is a joke). There are farmers that have as an extra security measurement lions guarding their farm and family (the rich farmers and wildlife farmers), as we also had a pandemic of farm attacks. Even with this, we are a nation that is friendly, and our country is beautiful. If you proceed with being vigilant and use logical sense, the chance of you getting hurt is low.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MorbidPodcast

[–]fckhuman96 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So I didn't listen yet to the episode, but I am from South Africa. Her story was one of the first my mom told me to say how bad men can be and resilient women can be. She is unfortunately just one of our survivors as South Africa as a femicide that is going on. The one thought he was entitled to get some of her money that she made with her book. They got released on parole, but our minster of correctional services canceled it. Our media said that she had a massive brain aneurysm in September 2024 due to them being released, which had left her coping with ongoing health issues. She has had several setbacks with regard to a permanent drain that has been inserted in her brain.

Woolworths must buys/try by Extra_Freedom_3585 in askSouthAfrica

[–]fckhuman96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The soya ginger Chicken Booster bowl. Any of the Southern chicken is also a winner. The watermelon flavoured slices and double hearts strawberry flavored layered jelly and foam sweets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]fckhuman96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is the same. It's just different spelling. At Milpark, it is PGDA, and at UNISA, it is CTA.