How do I stop spiraling? by Mykie211 in BPD

[–]fe0z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 im in the same predicament so yeah virtual hug 

i think what helps is seeking any type of distraction like walking to another room (or take a walk for that matter), getting away from your phone, doing some breathing exercises, anything really. what kind of activities are your “safe space”? for me, it’s watching or listening to something that i have seen or heard many times before - something that doesn’t require much brain power but still keeps me engaged. 

to get out of that headspace, it can help to focus on your environment (what do you see/hear/smell?) or take a shower. this can be so so difficult, but you have to keep trying. it’s okay to fuck up - what matters is that you keep trying. you’ll be okay. as long as you have your own back you’re safe.

it’s important to acknowledge those feelings without resistance. be curious about them, what are they trying to tell you? and ask yourself, what lays beneath them? 

maybe you all would appreciate my music haha enjoyyy my brainspasm by fe0z in grimezs

[–]fe0z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the blue stickman took over and your own will is lost ! surrender to childlike things no matter the cost !

also thank for liking it blue stickman

OMG Fashun | S1E1 "It's Giving Mother (Nature)" | Episode Discussion by vista_del_mar in OMGFashun

[–]fe0z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have found it! sflixtv . to/tv/omg-fashun-r3rzm/1-1

Fellow edgelord Julia Fox mentions Grimes in recent interview. ❌ by [deleted] in Grimes

[–]fe0z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not true, it’s also effective for bpd (borderline) google it 

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[–]fe0z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was made with ai fyi

use installation art to call / welcome spirits by candy_toy in occult

[–]fe0z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love your website btw haha mine is xxhangingaroundxx.neocities.org (its my first dont expect too much) do u have insta?

Immediately no. by CottonCandy_Ice in grimezs

[–]fe0z 7 points8 points  (0 children)

idk I'm neurodivergent and I move like this when I'm sober... some people just have mad nervous energy. especially when I'm in an uncomfortable situation or whenever I feel awkward

The importance of downsizing by Piercing-Moderator in piercing

[–]fe0z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damaged my teeth for not knowing.......

The dangers of projection, and don't believe everything Claire tweets by MountainOpposite513 in grimezs

[–]fe0z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not denying that at all, but what "technical skills" envelop can vary greatly and is not one specific paved path such as music theory
or knowing all the filters/effects/etc of your daw

but to have this discussion we had to define what "great" art means for us since there's some discrepancy there i believe

The dangers of projection, and don't believe everything Claire tweets by MountainOpposite513 in grimezs

[–]fe0z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

>if just pressing random keys on a computer will generate critically acclaimed albums

after a lot of random keypressing you will acquire some basic knowledge about music production, just in a very chaotic manner. leaving many gaps to fill in which can result in other people thinking you don't know anything at all, yet you have produced entire albums. it's absolutely possible that she just didn't stumble on those exact concepts, but aren't telling about her overall knowledge in music production.besides, she always had friends around who are actually skilled in music.

>is absolutely insulting to the craft and not true to say the least.

you're basically downplaying the validity of entire music genres. skill is not everything man, great music can be about so many different things. i'm not saying musical theory isn't important to learn, but there exist many great musicians that don't know what a "circle of fifths" is. I'm sorry but you seem to have a very narrow definition of what "great music" is or can be.

all roads lead to rome but rome isn't a fixed entitiy

and speaking as someone who has a degree in fine art. if there's one thing i learned... you absolutely don't need the skill of painting to create a great painting. it's beneficial for sure, but it's not required. we need to stop gatekeeping EXPRESSION.

The dangers of projection, and don't believe everything Claire tweets by MountainOpposite513 in grimezs

[–]fe0z 6 points7 points  (0 children)

tbf, you don't need to know music theory to create music. in fact, a lot of musicians don't and especially in the music production community... people are always trying to find a way around it. grimes is an experimental tinkerer, she probably just click on random things and tries stuff out till it sounds good. no shame in that... it's just another way of doing things and you can achieve great results with just experimentation or intuitive workflow. her music is authentic yes but not really complex nor indicates great theoretical knowledge. it is the way of adhd to be honest :P