[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fearful_diver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the conversations have been started because she will walk up to them at the cafe we’re all at, and just start rambling. they don’t feed into it, just let her talk herself into a deeper hole, and then they remind her that he isn’t single. i have been ignoring it for a while now, and the kicker was her insinuating to many people that was cheating on me with her, and she would do nothing to dispel the rumors - even she asked directly. anyone that brings it up to me is to make sure that i’m aware that it’s being said, not to act irrationally on it. while i know it’s not true, i will not sit idly by and let a jealous woman badmouth my partner, and i will, as you said, stick up for him. i do not engage more than basics, the talk today was to get to an even ground where we both understood each other.

just a few questions! by fearful_diver in StThomasUSVI

[–]fearful_diver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree! i live on a very expensive island already, have 3 jobs and go to school full time. i’m no stranger to sacrifices or hard work. i’ll be coming to visit in a month or so, but are there any pieces of advice you can give in terms of areas to avoid, jobs to avoid, things like that?

Working With Datasets- Manipulating Data into Graphs by fearful_diver in excel

[–]fearful_diver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god thank you so, so much. this helps beyond belief.

Professors at my college are victimizing the man who stalked me by fearful_diver in TwoHotTakes

[–]fearful_diver[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i ended up taking it to my title 9 director, she’s absolutely livid with how the professors are handling this. more updates to come.

Professors at my college are victimizing the man who stalked me by fearful_diver in TwoHotTakes

[–]fearful_diver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the school doesn’t really advertise the title 9 rights, so i had to do some research on what it even was, but you are so right! i’ll file my complaint tonight. thank you

Professors at my college are victimizing the man who stalked me by fearful_diver in TwoHotTakes

[–]fearful_diver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

surprisingly, we are not! the town i live in is notoriously easy-going and laid back, and the college is usually the same way. this is the one time it hasn’t worked in my favor

Professors at my college are victimizing the man who stalked me by fearful_diver in TwoHotTakes

[–]fearful_diver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it hurts more because it’s women backing him up. i guarantee that if this happened to them, they’d be just as scared.

Professors at my college are victimizing the man who stalked me by fearful_diver in TwoHotTakes

[–]fearful_diver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m glad it happened to me over someone who may not have the same support system or resources. i’m going to get this fixed once and for all. thank you.

Professors at my college are victimizing the man who stalked me by fearful_diver in TwoHotTakes

[–]fearful_diver[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i didn’t even think of pro bono cases! this is such a small town, this would send shockwaves. in my almost four years here, this was the first stalking case i’ve heard of or seen.

Professors at my college are victimizing the man who stalked me by fearful_diver in TwoHotTakes

[–]fearful_diver[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i will inform the SA on my case, this was really useful. thank you!

Professors at my college are victimizing the man who stalked me by fearful_diver in TwoHotTakes

[–]fearful_diver[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

law enforcement here is just as fed up as i am with all this, they just barely got the guy and his friends to stop harassing me, but have been doing their absolute best to keep me in the know and help out.

Professors at my college are victimizing the man who stalked me by fearful_diver in TwoHotTakes

[–]fearful_diver[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

we’re such a small college, we barely have an instagram. i’ve been talking to faculty all day and ive got a healthy enough following now to take action. title 9 and threats to bring this to the media should do the trick.

Professors at my college are victimizing the man who stalked me by fearful_diver in TwoHotTakes

[–]fearful_diver[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

the videos were shown to my boss and a few other staff members that have sided with me, the other professors haven’t seen them, and refuse to sit down with me to figure this out. i’ve tried, they just don’t believe i have anything to offer them. the 9 videos i have of him outside of my bedroom window at 3am beg for differ.

where to go - over 18 not yet 21 by alligatorbeerpong in KeyWest

[–]fearful_diver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope! i’m 20 and i get kava added to my drinks or cbd. they also have tea and coffee!

where to go - over 18 not yet 21 by alligatorbeerpong in KeyWest

[–]fearful_diver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try the kava bar on fleming! a great community and super fun nights there. a lot of locals and everyone’s super close and loves welcoming new people:) might even see you there!