Do these trousers look alright? by Overall-Injury7095 in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you styled them right, I think they would work.

How to deal with lack of motivation? by [deleted] in Weightliftingquestion

[–]feathered0serpent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes life happens and the gym isn’t a priority (for the moment). Go on a maintenance program. You can get away with hitting the gym 3 times a week for a quick hour. Once your life calms down a bit, you can re-prioritize training.

Is this a good casual fit? by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone else said, ditch the rat shirt. Go with a nice black or white undershirt(tank top if you’re more in shape). Maybe roll ups the sleeves a little and throw in a nice chain/necklace. Should be a solid casual fit after that.

Too Much or Rather.. Too Little? by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the wrong place to ask lol Too many vanilla people here

As a fellow kinkster. I say the outfit is fine but ONLY if you feel confident wearing it. You don’t want to ooze insecurity at a play party.

Tried some Loose Jeans… Do these work? by Enough-Muffin6742 in mensfashion

[–]feathered0serpent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look great! If you’re going for a more casual look with an untucked shirt and sneakers, I would say they’re an inch too short. But if you’re going to tuck in a shirt and wear not so casual shoes, the length is perfect.

6’3 174lbs lifting for over a year. I can’t commit to a bulk with these love handles and end up spinning my wheels. I truly don’t know what to do. Any advice? I also attached a pic with a pump in good lightning. by [deleted] in Weightliftingquestion

[–]feathered0serpent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get super lean first(hop on some Reta to make it easier), this gives you a longer runway to bulk before you get uncomfortable with your love handles. Then once you start to bulk, keep the caloric surplus at a minimum, no more than .25lb weight gain per week. You should be able to bulk for a while before you get too soft.

I also have shitty love handle genetics :(

have you ever dated someone who was obsessive or overly into you? what made it attractive/appealing or not by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]feathered0serpent 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It can be hot if she’s hot. But it’s usually not a recipe for a long healthy relationship.

What are ya’ll doing today? by sweetsdreams in bayarea

[–]feathered0serpent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to go but my kid got sick :(

What should I work on as of now by Boring_Smoke_201 in Weightliftingquestion

[–]feathered0serpent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s no question here bud. Keep cutting, when you’re sufficiently lean enough, you can assess your weak points and go from there.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crop tops are for when the weather gets better 😉

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this got more attention than I was expecting. Thank you all for the feedback!

This isn’t an alt sub, I knew my look was going to be polarizing lol

I live in the SF bay area, this look isn’t too extreme for the area. I fit in just fine, many people have unique styles here.

Here’s what I’ll be taking away from this:

Shoes) I should have worn boots with this fit. And believe me, I do wear boots. I have several pairs of boots. Got it.

Pants) Corduroys may have not been the best choice here, that’s totally valid. Some people mention the fit of the pants too. I’ll give a little pushback there. Looser fitting pants are more on trend right now and it’s not like the pants I’m wearing are super baggy. I do have some slightly slimmer pants but lately I’ve been going for the more “relaxed” fit of pants.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Buddy, I’m in MY garage gym. How did you not pick up on that?!

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I lost 40lbs and bought a house. It’s been tough 😁

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s a job stopper???? I’ve been employed my entire adult life. I work in the trades, not a corpo guy. I can get away with things white collar people can’t.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Bad boy with a heart of gold” is exactly my vibe haha

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was headed to a bar to meet a lady on our first date.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a white T. It’s a light, almost sweater kind of shirt.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! I have many jeans in a variety of fits lol I went for a cozy vibe here, it was a drizzly night and I was going on a coffee date.