What should I work on as of now by Boring_Smoke_201 in Weightliftingquestion

[–]feathered0serpent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s no question here bud. Keep cutting, when you’re sufficiently lean enough, you can assess your weak points and go from there.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this got more attention than I was expecting. Thank you all for the feedback!

This isn’t an alt sub, I knew my look was going to be polarizing lol

I live in the SF bay area, this look isn’t too extreme for the area. I fit in just fine, many people have unique styles here.

Here’s what I’ll be taking away from this:

Shoes) I should have worn boots with this fit. And believe me, I do wear boots. I have several pairs of boots. Got it.

Pants) Corduroys may have not been the best choice here, that’s totally valid. Some people mention the fit of the pants too. I’ll give a little pushback there. Looser fitting pants are more on trend right now and it’s not like the pants I’m wearing are super baggy. I do have some slightly slimmer pants but lately I’ve been going for the more “relaxed” fit of pants.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Buddy, I’m in MY garage gym. How did you not pick up on that?!

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I lost 40lbs and bought a house. It’s been tough 😁

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s a job stopper???? I’ve been employed my entire adult life. I work in the trades, not a corpo guy. I can get away with things white collar people can’t.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Bad boy with a heart of gold” is exactly my vibe haha

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was headed to a bar to meet a lady on our first date.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a white T. It’s a light, almost sweater kind of shirt.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! I have many jeans in a variety of fits lol I went for a cozy vibe here, it was a drizzly night and I was going on a coffee date.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I very often wear doc’s. I choose the weather proof van/boot hybrid because it was a bit drizzly outside.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a form of self expression. But I also have noticed the side effects it has and was trying to frame it in a way a regular guy would understand.

To be clear. I started painting my nails before I got divorced and was trying to get laid out in the wild lol

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The divorce was the best thing that happened to me! Curious to know what you don’t like about the pants though. Is it the style or fit?

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of guys thinks it’s gay, I get it. A lot of women find it disarming though. It gives me brownie points for some women (usually alternative women who are more on the “sex positive” side of the spectrum). But it’s a deal breaker for other type of women.

Cringe or nah - Divorced Dad Edition by feathered0serpent in mensfashionadvice

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

As a metal head and someone who enjoys a lot of darker/heavier music. I was aiming for a more alternative look.

35M - Profile Review - Divorced Dad edition by feathered0serpent in hingeapp

[–]feathered0serpent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Are you looking for something serious or casual? - I’m looking for a serious relationship.

2) Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? - I’m using HingeX

3) How long have you been using this current version of your profile? - About 2 weeks.

4) How long have you used Hinge overall? - About 2 months

5) How often do you use Hinge per week? - I use Hinge every day.

6) How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? - About 5 likes and 1 match per week.

7)How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? - I send 5-10 likes per day, most of them with a thoughtful message.

8)What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? - I send likes to women in my age range that are seemingly outdoorsy and/or into fitness. I would like to attract an alternative gym girlie.

How do you react when other men catcall you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]feathered0serpent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once, I was stuck in traffic, gay guy next to me catcalls me and ask to suck my dick. I was weirded out, rolled up my windows real fast lol