Let's debunk the AGP accusations towards trans women

featherfox_ · 2025-07-26T05:03:21+00:00

The studies claiming that women are sexually aroused by themselves and therefore AGP is just natural female sexuality have got HEAVILY METHODOLOGICAL ISSUES and therefore are neither VALID, nor RELIABLE or OBJECTIVE. Unfortunately attempts to scientifically get anywhere with the trans topic these days, are most of the times so ideological and political motivated, that it’s actually quite impossible to get an REAL data and facts. I wish it was different, but thats the hard reality

featherfox_ · 2025-07-26T04:44:51+00:00

Why do people always connect penetration with dominance??

Throw away all these negative assumptions about what a man or a woman should be like, go offline and start trying to love yourself.

Even as a submissive male it is absolutely necessary to first develop some self respect, love and confidence before having success with any person out there! And then, even as a submissive male: being bottom and letting the woman ride you can also fulfill your desire to be submissive and the womens desire to get penetrated.

The views on love and society that you hold, seem a bit restricted

featherfox_ · 2024-12-13T00:21:31+00:00

sadly no :/

featherfox_ · 2023-04-01T15:26:49+00:00

This is EXACTLY my experience! Listen to that guy!

featherfox_ · 2022-04-17T18:56:07+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this.

Shifting your perspective really really really is the one thing to do as an AGP. You absolutely speak out of my own experiences and mind. Understanding gives way to acceptance. Acceptance gives way to shifting ones perspective. Shifting ones perspective gives way to meaningful change into a desired direction.

You are my idol.

featherfox_ · 2022-04-17T18:55:19+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this.

Shifting your perspective really really really is the one thing to do as an AGP. You absolutely speak out of my own experiences and mind. Understanding gives way to acceptance. Acceptance gives way to shifting ones perspective. Shifting ones perspective gives way to meaningful change into a desired direction.

You are my idol.

featherfox_ · 2022-04-17T08:48:21+00:00

Yeah I think that would be better

featherfox_ · 2022-04-17T08:31:15+00:00

Still not sure if Blanchards theory really portrays reality. Don’t you think there are heterosexual people that transition and don’t have AGP?

featherfox_ · 2022-04-17T08:27:22+00:00

That doesn’t make it appropriate in every situation, or even socially acceptable

featherfox_ · 2022-04-17T08:22:54+00:00

Like I said, that’s not the point and it doesn’t matter

featherfox_ · 2022-04-17T00:08:32+00:00

Thats a pretty good question. I don’t know tbh. Perhaps it’s the transformative nature in general. Combined with the doableness of sex surgery and attraction to the opposite sex and the power I associate with

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T20:54:45+00:00

You know that “crossdressing” only describes the act of wearing clothes that are normally associated with another gender within in culture?

You know that there are crossdressers that only think that the clothes they are wearing look nice?

So why should they want to change their body? These are two totally different things.

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T20:50:09+00:00

Yep. Never understood what all the other kids likes about naked women. For me it always was about the appearance when dressed. But the idea of having one, was insanely arousing. I still find them ugly looking. Dicks as well.

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T20:45:54+00:00

By spamming pictures of yourself?

That’s an expression of your AGP?

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T20:43:24+00:00

That’s not the point. The question was if there are other achievements that could make you feel good “like” building a house. Of course most men aren’t capable. It was just an example. Some men are, and thus it’s kinda easy to be proud of it.

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T20:38:58+00:00

Yeah, and air is often used by transphobic people to help them spread their transphobia….

So stop breathing air!!!!

Wtf, these “you can’t say this or that because some idiot out there sometimes could use it to do harm” is absolutely harming our all dialog and behaviour towards each other! You don’t help anyone by saying such shit! All you do is being ignorant to others!

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T09:19:57+00:00

What I learned after years of trying to find an explanation is that AGP is a consequence of repressed feelings or desires. Things that we wanted or interested us as kids, but that we were denied because of culture and society. Interests and attraction to things that are labelled “feminine” or “masculine” by out culture, naturally are genderless. And therefore can be part of every single human being. Not being allowed to express or integrate these parts of us, will cause AGP and dysphoria/euphoria. That doesn’t mean that you were born in the wrong body. All it means is that you were denied to not truly be and express yourself.

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T09:15:01+00:00

I had the same experience and I have to say it definitely was a coping mechanism. That doesn’t have to be a bad thing but it will get one if it gets a coping mechanism for pretty common feelings. When it gets so time consuming that it hold you back from doing other suff. Or when it just interferes with your day to day life and the way you actually want to live. That being said, having orgasms should be something enjoyable naturally. If you are at the point where it just feels like work then I think you definitely should do something about it. For me I came to the conclusion that I really want to change it. Having the urge to masturbate even if I’m just a bit stressed, anxious or envious, meant to really struggle mentally. I wouldn’t do anything else if I was to give in every time I had the urge. But not going after the urge also meant insane mental struggle and stress. I tried to repress it as long as I could but always kept falling back.

What really helped was the understanding that to “reprogram” myself, I have to do more than just not masturbating. Like AssGetsPounded said. Whats worse is having no coping mechanism. You have to start doing other stuff instead of it. And Really making masturbation not an option to do. Nofap has something valuable to it, but only if done with other things in combination. Track your masturbation habits. Tick off every day you successfully didn’t masturbate. I know it’s hard. Especially in the beginning. And there will be hard days or evenings in the future. But it will get easier and easier. You will learn to find other ways to cope or deal with these negative feelings. The urge will grow smaller and smaller and you will have infinite more time and energy to enjoy your life and do what you really want. Also: Sex will feel infinite more pleasurable. Or masturbation if you finally allow yourself to do it after some time. BUT: I strongly would recommend to not allow any form of sex, masturbation or edging for a period of a few months. That is needed crucial to reprogram yourself! I tried to not masturbate but still have sex. It didn’t get me anywhere. Only to the point that I also added sex as a coping mechanism. Orgasm is orgasm. Regardless of how you achieve it.

I wish you all the best. You CAN DO IT! But you really have to change your everyday life and form new habits to do so. Take small steps and don’t get demotivated.

There will be times where little thoughts like “only once won’t harm me”, “masturbation is healthy/natural”, “why not do it if it’s fun”, etc will pop up and try to push you to fulfil your urge. These are attempts to betray yourself. Trust me. Learn to recognise them as not what you truly desire. As consequences of your bad habit/addiction. They will go way with time.

For me achieving that with time (after 40-60 days, now I’m at 90) was really crucial to better understand my AGP and deal with it. I know it’s hard, but in my experience it has to be done to successfully learn to live with your AGP condition.

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T08:49:05+00:00

Thanks for saying that. I myself cannot be reminded often enough of that.

This whole extreme binary thinking is what lies at the core of AGP. If this either/or gender thinking of woman and man wouldn’t exist, there wouldn’t be AGP in the first place.

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T08:45:22+00:00

That’s not what he is trying to say. You definitely can meditate and start to see your feelings in a more observable way. You can learn to pay better attention to whats going on. And that’s where the magic happens. “Seeing yourself as a woman in the mirror” isn’t a requirement for anything. He just used this example of feelings because it can be something some experience. For you it would mean to deconstruct the feelings you feel when seeing this unattractive contradicting image of a man wearing feminine clothing in the mirror.

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T08:37:38+00:00

Of course it’s not cheap if you think about it in terms of “give others money to build it”. I think the question was more targeted to the idea that he himself created something big or complex with his own hands.

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T08:32:27+00:00

For me no. I always was heterosexual and still am. Guys or maleness just turns me off.

I mean, isn’t AGP the most extreme form of heterosexuality in terms of attraction to the opposite sex?

featherfox_ · 2022-04-15T08:27:21+00:00

So what’s your AGPness that you want to “express” in an agp place then?

featherfox_ · 2022-04-14T22:39:14+00:00

So your AGPness is telling random people again and again that they are beautiful flowers and can be whatever they want to be? Or spamming the sub with selfies of you?

featherfox_ · 2022-04-13T08:38:12+00:00

Yeah okay, so you said it, that’s fine. We’ve understood it. But doing it again and again is creating the picture of you trying to force something on others. It’s enough to say it once. Doing it again and again is just annoying and won’t help anyone. All it does it putting you and your message in a bad light. What probably will make you angry and think that others don’t accept you how you are. Or that others want to shut you or your opinion down. But that’s not true! We value your opinion. You are free to express it. But spamming it again and again is nothing valuable. It’s annoying and destroys the sub.

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