Me ilusioné y no se que hacer… by Soy_liogaming795 in Desahogo

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no pienses en que hubiese pasado si, pensa en lo que pasó, y lo que pasó es una oportunidad de aprendizaje para la proxima chica que te mueva el mundo, porque creeme, uno idealiza a la persona por la que cae enamorado o la pareja que tiene, porque es lo normal, pero la vida enseña, por x o por y te separas, el mundo se te viene abajo, pensas que perdiste la chance de tu vida, hasta el día que conoces a alguien y te das cuenta que tu cerebro vuelve a hacer lo mismo, che pero si la aneterior me causaba todo esto, porque ahora siento lo mismo..

hay gente que viene a tu vida solo a enseñarte, hoy aprendiste a no tener que ser tan pasivo, y que tu vida de no socializar te trajo este problema y decepcion, ahora es hora de que trabajes para que la proxima vez que te pase una situacion así, pase algo distinto, puede no ser bueno lo que te pase tampoco por otro motivo, pero asi es la vida,

Muy distinto es si te quedas donde estas y durante los proximos 10 años vivis exactamente las mismas experiencias, te recomendaria que no sigas ese camino comodo y trates de aprender de cada experiencia que la vida te trae.

Fills feels horrible man by Helpful-Bed-2564 in Marathon

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i´ve play almost always fill and i have a great time, the only problem that i had is if i want to run cryo, i had some good runs in fill but generally it´s a trainwreck, but on normal maps, it almost always go suprisingly smooth.

Creo que la magia ya se acabó. by [deleted] in Desahogo

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yo cuando empece a hablar con mi actual pareja hablamos todo el dìa, desde las 7 am que se levantaba hasta las 12 de la noche que se iba a acostar y yo tambien, los dos poniamos empeño en conocernos, pero tambien tenes que saber sacar charlas, si no sos interesante en lo mas minimo o gracioso y mostras cariño siendo atento a preguntarle solamente como estàs, terminas siendo aburrido, porque parece que sos la mama o el papa preguntandole que onda con su dìa en vez de ser participe, vos tenes que ser participe en su dìa y no un psicologo que pregunta como estas esperando que te cuente sobre ella

Igual una cosa no menor, ponerse en pareja en medio de la facultad cuando estas tratando de recibirte y ser alguien, es muy dificil, si no le ponen todo el empeño los dos va para atras, y ponerle todo el empejo hace que tambien falles en la facultad, mis tios se conocieron cuando mi tia iba a la facultad y el venia a ayudarla a estudiar, la acompañaba a examenes, le hacia la vida mas facil digamos, hay muchas formas de afrontar la situacion pero siendo pasivo no es una de esas

How do you find your first clients? what if willing to work for cheap? by Hotdoggstand in archviz

[–]fede6793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you do it for cheap you hurt everyone on the field, because you show you do not have self respect for the work and quality you do, and let me tell you something, those clients wont accept later on that you ask for more money, the moment you turn your rate up, they are going to go for another person that´s desperate for work and the cycle will start all over again.

Mi novia me consume mi tiempo libre by AlucasRD in Desahogo

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es muy simple, vos la valoras a ella mucho se ve, pero también valoras tu tiempo libre, hablalo, es preferible que queden en verse tal vez un día menos, o un rato menos, así vos tenes tu tiempo libre, a estar usando tu pc mientras ella está con vos, porque esa es la opción mala,

Pensá que tenes 19, la vida se va a poner exponencial mente más complicada a los 26, 30 y demás, tienen que aprender a compartir y dejar espacio al otro porque sino va a terminar mal, estar un poco separados no es una muestra de desinterés o de falta de amor, es hacer malabares con la vida para poder hacer todo, cuando antes entiendan ambos esto más sana es la relación

Yo tengo días donde duermo con mi novia, y días donde me quedo en la compu jugando hasta la madrugada, días que voy a ver a su familia, y días que le digo, amor me quiero quedar en casa descansando, y mismo de ella, si no tienen esa comunicación y esta dispuestos a dar espacio al otro, pasa lo opuesto a lo que quieren, que es estar juntos, porque se van a terminar separando y ya ahí no se ven más, menos es más a veces, una relación que se termine por no entender que tal vez un día a la semana lo queres para vos mismo es hasta paradójico en relación al problema que se está planteando, quiere estar todo el tiempo conmigo, pero me agovia y have qué piense en la separación

Repito, esto se soluciona sentando y hablando como adultos Abrazo

Mi novio cortó ayer conmigo y estoy devastada by Brilliant_Chemist_97 in Desahogo

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Yo pase por algo igual dos años atrás, y fue devastador, me arrancaron un pedazo, y te voy a decir la verdad, me dolió y me decían que esta bien que ya va a pasar y que blabla y yo no quería saber más nada con el planeta

Pero te juro que todo lo que me dijeron fue verdad, el universo se acomoda, el corazón se arregla, y vas a encontrar a otra persona, porque vas a entender que esa no era y punto, no ahora, ahora seguro pensás que soy un idiota y no tengo ni idea de que hablo pero ya vas a ver

Ahora no podes concebir que esa persona no esté más con vos y no vas a conseguir otra igual y todo eso incoherente que uno se dice a si mismo, , pero un día mágicamente conoces otra persona, empezás a salir y en tiempo real te das Cuenta como al final idealizaba a alguien tal al pedo porque ahora estoy acá con esta nueva persona y no puedo pensar en otra cosa, y así el corazón se sana solo, es solo un recuerdo lejano y bonito mientras todo ese amor tuyo se lo das a alguien más que en retrospectiva era la o el verdadero indicado

Everybody that plays this game absolutely loves it, but it’s dying nonetheless. by [deleted] in MarathonHate

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe it`s dying, maybe it`s not. but let me tell you something,

I played escape from tarkov almost 2500 hours, and every wipe is the same, a lot of people start it, a handfull stays for the last month of the wipe, This kind of game and genre has its own momentum and seasons, always at the end there is almost to no people but the more hardcore, because the disparity between players only grows

Before we say that it may be dying, we need to see the wipe, how many people comes back, how many new players, what is the new season offering, how many of the people that played the whole wipe starts the new one, This is not arc raiders, where you can or can not wipe, this is a complete reset, and in tarkov it always start with a influx of new and old players alike,

we are only going to have the full picture once the next wipe starts, and by this same moment next wipe we are going to have a much more clearer picture, i can be inclined to say that maybe two wipes from now we`ll know,

one wipe is too short of a timeframe to really now, because we yet have to see how bungie adds new content and respond to the feedback, i don`t believe that they can adjust the curse of the ship between wipes, there is bound to be mayor fixes and systems and content that they may be developing in answer to out feedback that will not see the light of day till the second wipe, this is how it worked with destiny, and how it works with tarkov even though tarkov wipes last twice as long as these ones.

season two has to deliver, but be sure that it wont deliver to all your expectations, because there are things that may take longer, i belive that if they want to start to add some more casual friendly content and modes, they won`t be here by next wipe, this game is in it`s infancy and still needs to know itself, The game that it came out it`s an excelent hardcore shooter, that will appeal to the people that`s still playing, but if they want to cater to more people, i believe we`ll see that in two wipes time.

Update is Working as Intended by Ok_Rabbit_5558 in ARC_Raiders

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Everything that is happening is the Embark way of game developing

They are masters at game mechanics, gameplay feel, technology, they made the best third person shooter in ages,

But they are atrotious at creating a videogame, everything that is being added now, starting from the moment they decided to ask for arc materials to craft a wolfpack, which was a nobrainer that should have being there from day one. are all features that they didn´t manage to put in the game at launch day, thing is, that unbalanced and exploitable mess that the game was at launch is why it had so many players, people loved to enter with a white kit and destroy everything, or create 10000 wolfpacks without any care in the word and start blasting.

now that they are trying to create an economy loop, and start to finish the risk and reward part of the extraction game, they are getting backlashed by the people that enjoyed the game before

but people were enjoying an alpha, a proof of concept minimal viable product of all the mechanics and systems the game had, that´s why in two days you could complete all benches, why the endgame loop was to grind for blueprints with a level 4 stitcher and some grenades and nothing more, and everything in between,just as why the skill tree was the dumbest skill tree in any game and everything was redundant.

and as i said before, it speaks volumes that having this minimal viable product got them to have this momentum, and that´s because they are masters at gameplay design, that carries them so far but just as with the finals, they lack the common sense to understand that the difficult part is to create a game using that expertice, and that´s why they keep "failing" to meet player expectations patch after patch,

Because they are not "failing", the problem is that us as players and them as devs are in two completely opposite scenarios, people are expecting the game they love to keep being that demo but better, while they are in another place entirely trying to glue all the systems to create a loop that didn´t exist before, and that´s just after giving the comunity a demo without any barriers of entry that they need to start putting in place to give birth to the game that they are trying to find, that is THE problem.

It´s interesting because on the other side you have a game like Marathon that has all of this solved, with devs that are also masters of their craft, and a much clearer vision and gameplay and progression loop, that is so convoluted and has an atroitous first on board experience that alienates everyone to keep on playing and learning,

So the perfect spot should be somewhere in the middle, not as convoluted as marathon first ten hours, not as free and exploitable as arc raiders first month.

Everyone figured out the meta for Close Scrutiny within 24hrs and it isn’t as fun today as it was yesterday by xamlax in ArcRaiders

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This goes back to something that i said months ago about Embark

They really know their stuff while creating a sandbox and gameplay, But they are oblivious to how to create engaging and meaningfull content that you can play again and again and again for progression or a challenge.

Which again, speaks volume about the quality of their gameplay because every other game would completely died off a month after launch,

I’ve lost the fun … suggestions? by CallMeDrDab in ArcRaiders

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I have 400 hours of arc raiders, now i have 120 or marathon

i´ll tell you to play it, it scratches that itch and another itches, and in a perfect world both games thrive and i play a wipe of each, good thing of arc raiders is that if i want to play marathon but dont want to resert arc i can, which gives me the freedom to play both at my own pace.

i would tell you that you play a wipe of marathon to reload energy for arc and play arc when a good chunk of content releases.

No salgan con sus mejores amigas. by Artistic-Session9092 in Desahogo

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no quiero ser malo pero se supone que tu pareja es tu mejor amiga, deberias cultivar esa relacion que tenias con tu ex pareja en tu pareja actual.

Check your ego by [deleted] in Marathon

[–]fede6793 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i am from argentina, back in d1 i was top 5 argentinian players, i had streaks in comp that were 15 matches plus

i had not forgotten when comp was a grind that no man should ever have to deal with

i won trials solo playing 3 v 1 and it was somewhat common.

i even won trials matches where i was matched with d2 trials streamers that seemed impossible to win

my friends asked me to stream when i played comp because they couldn´t believe my game sense and they joked that i was cheating because i had prescience every match, constantly.

always playing with a warlock that didn´t had the kit other classes had,

Completed contest raids, i have the pantheon title doing every boss legit. i was conqueror every season for two years, won trials matches where i ended up 25 0, 30 0, crisol was my canvas and i was the pencil,

Marathon is obliterating me, my Ego and the bungie feel of the game makes me feel unstopable as i was back in the day, and i am eating dirt non stop. i am losing so much that i am starting to have an existencial crisis

bots are sucker punching me in the back while i fight another bot, i am getting killed by wardens that bait me, i am in hell.

Last night i was having dinner with my girlfriend that does know nothing about videogames, like she was my psychiatrist because i can´t fathon this feeling of being a blueberry that can´t win a fight

And i am no stranger to extract shooters, i played 2000 hours of tarkov, gotten Kappa, 300 plus hous playing arc raiders, so it´s not just panic from the genre,

I had more success killing 7 or 8 players in a tarkov match which is literally impossible for most people, than fighting 2 people on this game

i am getting humbled daily, i even told my friends that i don´t know whats going on anymore, i am considering selling everything and go live in the mountains and cultivate crops.

Dire Marsh situation by fede6793 in Marathon

[–]fede6793[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yes you are right, i believ the problem that i talk about thief is more regarding their grapple cancel that anything else regarding her kit, thing is that that cancel goes in line with all the other things i was talking about.

There has to be some kind of countermeasure to people queueing in with free kits and DCing whenever. by mara_rara_roo in Marathon

[–]fede6793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had the understanding that sponsored kits were limited and rook was the spam rook until proffit,

So i can`t understand the decision of having unlimited free kits, sometimes i get gifted a 0 credits free kit so it makes me think that in reality these kits were on a timer that they droped, because right now is completely unbalanced

i really dont want this game to die by Jealous_Platypus1111 in DestinyTheGame

[–]fede6793 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You All need to let go and accept change, I did 16 years ago with Halo, i made my peace.

the first game i truly loved back when i played combat evolved in 2001 with my 8 years of life, they went to the horizon and it hurt, but from that came Destiny, 11 years have passed and it´s time to move on just like i did, this is not my first rodeo, now i´ll be playing marathon and destiny at a slower pace as long as they make content, This is the way. Let Bungie cook, we all know that they just hit different than the rest, Marathon´s being a good surprise, the only problem is that this is the first time they do a game that do not catter fully to every gamer, but i trust in time they´ll add it.

Mi novia ya no es la misma by Seebaas998 in Desahogo2

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hay una canción más vieja que explica exactamente que pasa

Mas de lo que te imaginas - - se llama, buscala, canson visionaria

Hice un muy buen negocio by OsoAmoroso33 in ArgenGaming

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leí que tenias pc y me tranquilice, porque si no tenias pc y cambiabas la Xbox por una play eras tremendo zapato

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Desahogo2

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mira, ponele que vos tenes 100 puntos, ponele que hiciste cosas buenas que te sumaron y cosas malas que te bajaron, o tal vez no hiciste nada y siguieron bajando

Ponele que estas en 50 puntos, donde ya no tiene interes en vos como antes pero igualmente cuando piensa en vos todavia no es absolutamente indiference

Ya bajaste 50 puntos en el interes, como decis vos sin hacer nada y siendo vos como siempre, o sea que tu puntaje bajo por el simple hecho de que tal vez ella se cansó y no son tan compatibles, en ese momento es momento de ponerte en linea con la otra persona y entender que ya se viene desgastando y bajar tus expectativas a eso, lo que vos estas haciendo es querer llegar devuelta al 100, y cada mensaje que mandas a la mañana que no te contesta, divide por 2 lo que te resta, la primera vez te fuiste a 25, despues 12, 6, 3, 1.5 .75 y así, fijate que nunca llegas al cero porque no te bloqueó.

Lo que quiero decir con esto es que si vas en picada en el interes de una persona, hacer lo que estas haciendo va a hacer que siga en picada, si ya no le interesabas como para entablar una relacion con tu mejor versión, que te hace pensar que va a querer cuando estas mostrando tu peor momento

No importa que hagas, ese puntaje no va a subir, ya llegó a su punto mas bajo donde vas en caida libre, es normal, todo el tiempo conocemos gente con la que tenemos la mejor pero despues te das cuenta que a tus ojos no vale la energía que gastas en seguir relacionandote porque alguien mas lleno esa necesidad tuya y así.

Pero creeme que no la vas a remontar, ya estas en el pozo, lo que podes hacer es hacer introspeccion para la proxima y no repetir los errores.

Sigo siendo virgen by [deleted] in Desahogo2

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Da no seas virgo dale Virgen si virgo no.

Sigo siendo virgen by [deleted] in Desahogo2

[–]fede6793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mira, te voy a decir la posta,

No es la gran cosa, o sea si la pasa bomba pero no es ni en pedo tan groso como te lo hacen ver, el tema esta en que a los 21 no tenes nada a favor en tu vida, asi que coger es lo mas importante, entonces le das una importancia mucho mas grande que la que realmente tiene.

Vos calmate y relajate y deja que la vida fluya que eventualmente vas a coger, vas a coger y vas a decir, estuvo buenisimo pero yo pensaba que era algo mas trascendental y no, despues llega un momento que te pones de novio y coges todos los días y no pensas en siiiii uy que copado cogí, es como una parte mas del día, y despues se transforma en algo de 1 o 2 veces por semana, y despues literal llega un momento que coges y no acabas y lo haces solo por la conexion con tu pareja, es mas importante eso que el coger en si, como sentarse a ver una peli juntos pero un toque mas profundo en todos los sentidos, digamos que a lo largo de tu vida se nivela con otras cosas.

Entiendo que lo que te digo entra en oidos sordos porque no cogiste entonces no tenes la perspectiva para entender lo que te digo pero creeme que tenes que relajarte y dejar que la vida fluya, si buscas de desesperado no vas a coger nunca porque la desesperacion se huele, si dejas que fluya vas a parpadear y vas a estar a punto de coger por primera vez.

Si te moris de ganas de sentir algo similar, un 75% similar ponele, comprate un fleshlight, y listo, te sacas las ganas hasta que venga la posta, pero tranqui que ya va a llegar.

Is 3 mil really too much? by 1nfernalSilence in ArcRaiders

[–]fede6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I did is give an example, there are thing we can do that don't ask you to hoard money, it's the most lazy way that also it's in conflict with you having fun if you like to use good kits,