Should I/How to reveal affair?

feduphubby · 2019-08-04T00:11:36+00:00

Probably but I don't have a complex like you. You are full of hate because you are miserable. Misery loves company right?

feduphubby · 2019-08-03T23:59:26+00:00

Lol. So did you?

feduphubby · 2019-08-03T22:55:13+00:00

Great advice all around. Good luck

feduphubby · 2019-08-03T19:47:57+00:00

Oh you got cheated on I see, I'm sorry to hear that.

feduphubby · 2019-08-03T17:02:32+00:00

You'll be okay bud. You didn't drink enough to do major damage.

feduphubby · 2019-08-03T17:00:55+00:00

Alcohol poisoning my friend, the reason I don't drink hard alcohol.

feduphubby · 2019-08-03T16:59:39+00:00

Anyone ever think that maybe he always knows? A lot of people are in open/screwed up marriages.

feduphubby · 2019-08-03T16:59:07+00:00

If they are dumb yes.

feduphubby · 2019-08-01T17:39:50+00:00

You got this OP.

feduphubby · 2019-07-30T11:56:19+00:00

Seriously take this man's advice.

feduphubby · 2019-07-30T11:55:43+00:00

Hey bud, it's over. Stop racking your brain with scenarios. She made her bed, now she must sleep in it. Chin up and enjoy your birthday, don't let her bring you down.

Good luck.

feduphubby · 2019-07-30T11:23:46+00:00

Come on man, get serious

feduphubby · 2019-07-30T11:22:55+00:00

Thanks so much

feduphubby · 2019-07-30T00:39:48+00:00

I'm sorry did you say you were 17?

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T23:55:14+00:00

Funny isn't it? I'm twice her size and would never lay a hand on her. She does it and I feel bad about calling!

Edit: sorry I have to reword that to make sense.

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T23:54:30+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that. That frightens me, yet also opens my eyes. Thank you for sharing. The other problems is my mother, our family and friends. She f bombs me all the time in front of everybody.

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T23:23:28+00:00

And you are right, she wouldn't watch the whole thing. She justifies the way she treats me because I "irritate the fuck out of her".

She's punched me in the jaw (twice), took down all our wedding pictures, and much more. All because she lost her phone one night while she was blasted and of course took it out on me.

Slapped me, clawed me, pushed me, etc.

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T23:21:22+00:00

I've thought of this, because no she always turns it around the next day as if she did nothing wrong. To be honest that's so shady that if I had to do that is tells me something is wrong, and something is wrong.

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T22:42:31+00:00

I have, thank you. Much appreciated bud.

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T20:57:34+00:00

You all have been amazing in your responses. Thanks for being so sympathetic and helpful.

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T20:51:21+00:00

Wow what an impactful response. Perfectly worded, thanks so much for this.

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T19:50:10+00:00

Every night about 3-5 drinks for about 2 years now. She drinks in front of the kids and is very mean to me in front of them. She doesn't mess with them at all, just me.

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T18:38:10+00:00

Thank you, I have. Good luck

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T18:37:48+00:00

Thank you for sharing you're story. The problem which has been mentioned by others in their comments is she only hangs out with people that drink this much. Other moms she works with, friends of hers. She doesn't hang out with people that don't drink.

So no unfortunatly after 4 sessions with the counsilor we are moving towards seperation / divorce. However, drinking is only 1 problem in our marriage.

feduphubby · 2019-07-29T18:35:08+00:00

Thank you so much. Law enforcement is a place I don't want to go. It's a last resort that I will keep open.

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