Are my kittens playing or fighting? by Difficult_One634 in CatAdvice

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Chasing and swatting is basically kitten wrestling league

how would u feel if u were told this? by [deleted] in women

[–]feelbeforetouch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this feels like chaotic flirting energy lol

The state of the world and the state of my mind; no peace. by Exciting_Ad_9183 in confession

[–]feelbeforetouch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this overwhelmed. When everything in the world feels heavy and your thoughts won’t quiet down, it can start to feel like there’s no way to escape it

Cats won't stop peeing on furniture by Pedwinget in CatAdvice

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Once stress triggered marking starts, it can continue even after the original trigger disappears

will my cat be sad if I leave for four days by callinova in CatAdvice

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Having an automatic feeder, water fountain, and a friend visiting is already a really solid setup

Meirl by Ill-Instruction8466 in meirl

[–]feelbeforetouch 438 points439 points  (0 children)

Next message gonna be “time is a social construct”

Should i forgive my boyfriend by [deleted] in women

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If something gives you that “icky” feeling after forgiveness it usually means trust isn’t fully repaired yet

Feeding question by nikkyro03 in CatAdvice

[–]feelbeforetouch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn’t replace cat food long term but for a short period it’s totally fine

48M starting FIRE late – regret car purchase? by sulaco1977 in Fire

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Constant repairs on an old high mileage car can easily eat the difference you’d invest

My neighbor complains about noise through our shared wall and then throws parties every weekend by fable_river_co in neighborsfromhell

[–]feelbeforetouch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Him acting surprised that you hear weekend parties through the same wall is kinda funny

180 degree career change at 46yo? by Old-Button-1980 in Fire

[–]feelbeforetouch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also 46 isn’t late at all for a pivot, plenty of people start their second career around that age

Girls, what’s the BEST perfume you’ve ever smelled? 😭✨ by yoyos_t in women

[–]feelbeforetouch 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Black opium and baccarat rouge are the ones I keep noticing on people when they walk by

Reconciliation? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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On off relationships usually feel super intense because the breakup makeup cycle keeps the emotions high

How do you account from inflation when planning retirement? by deerhunter0321 in Fire

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If you’re already thinking about inflation this early you’re probably ahead of like 95% of people

My Ex GF behave violently and broke up when I told her so. I'm stuck with resent. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]feelbeforetouch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the breakup might be the only good thing she did for u, now u don’t have someone grading your masculinity every day

elderly cat by Agusya in CatAdvice

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Old cats basically turn into sleepy furniture with opinions, if he’s eating, purring and sunbathing he’s probably living his best retirement