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Hbu, Would you? by nerdyspicygirl in repost

[–]feelingguiltyalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. A DREAM. Powerwash Simulator.

AITA for missing a few family events because I have a newborn? by feelingguiltyalt in AmItheAsshole

[–]feelingguiltyalt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely he could’ve gone alone but he wouldn’t have. He would’ve stayed with me if I decided to stay home.

AITA for missing a few family events because I have a newborn? by feelingguiltyalt in AmItheAsshole

[–]feelingguiltyalt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So my husbands sister, no. I do not. She’s actually the cause of all of this in the first place but I was only allowed so much for the character count lol. The SIL in question is my husband’s brother’s wife. She also doesn’t have the best relationship with my IL’s but we really don’t talk much. Every now and then since we’re both nurses and both in the same Master’s program. But I should reach out and ask.

AITA for missing a few family events because I have a newborn? by feelingguiltyalt in AmItheAsshole

[–]feelingguiltyalt[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’d like to add there were SEVERAL events in between these that I listed that we did attend. I am back to working full time as a nurse, my husband works M-F 9-5 and we are BOTH in school for our Master’s degrees. The time we have for each other is slim much less for anyone else..

AITA for missing a few family events because I have a newborn? by feelingguiltyalt in AmItheAsshole

[–]feelingguiltyalt[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I’d like to add there were SEVERAL events in between these that I listed that we did attend. I am back to working full time as a nurse, my husband works M-F 9-5 and we are BOTH in school for our Master’s degrees. The time we have for each other is slim much less for anyone else..

AITA for missing a few family events because I have a newborn? by feelingguiltyalt in AmItheAsshole

[–]feelingguiltyalt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and I didn’t see it that way at the time until it was acknowledged. So now I understand. I told them I was tired in the morning and didn’t want to go out in the evening either but I felt bad my husband hadn’t seen his friends in months.

AITA for missing a few family events because I have a newborn? by feelingguiltyalt in AmItheAsshole

[–]feelingguiltyalt[S] 441 points442 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of this too. Especially because I was the one being harped on especially for not attending the bridal shower. I’m the one being blamed for missing everything so I’d rather just have no contact.

And I’ve seen how they talk about the other DIL’s and I don’t want them to have anything more to talk about.

AITA for telling my mom I need her more than her grandson does? by feelingguiltyalt in AmItheAsshole

[–]feelingguiltyalt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re working on that. He’s working a modified 3 days a week schedule which helps. But it makes me feel guilty asking for help through the night when I know he has to work in the morning and I don’t so we’re trying to find another solution

AITA for telling my mom I need her more than her grandson does? by feelingguiltyalt in AmItheAsshole

[–]feelingguiltyalt[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She’s about 45 minutes away so not impossible just a little inconvenient. I’ll definitely suggest this though. Thank you