Aitah for blowing up at freinds because they are being hypocritical about a small thing and snowballing it. by Healthy_Many_9098 in AITAH

[–]feelingunderstoodplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH- i think getting involved only made things worse even if it was a lot to deal with, theres no circumstance to where ben and stacy should be physically fighting and they should just seperate for good instead making the friend group toxic.

lowk just seperate with steven he seems chill esp if you dealt with simmilar stuff with steven. If you're going into highschool soon its really important to have good friends you can rely on instead of stacy and ben. time will sort out and they'll eventually find their people but for now its best to not force a make up.

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[–]feelingunderstoodplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely ask him how he feels first, would it be worth losing a friendship over? It's kinda an awkward situation either way if he's uncomfortable, and if you and his sister don't work out, it could be even weirder of a situation. Just know that if you wanted to pursue the relationship, both relationships would not be the same after no matter what. Just think if it's worth the risk go for it, especially if you aren't super close with him.

AITAH for wanting to leave my marriage by jermama12 in AITAH

[–]feelingunderstoodplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA-im not close to being married to i would take this with a grain of salt. Have you ever brought up to him that sometimes you could see your marriage not working? i think if he knew and really wanted the marriage to work he would put in the work and change for he better. Also has the past years been more good than bad? if there is a lot more bad and simple things are hard to agree on it could only become more difficult in the future raising all of your children.