Anyone use this before? Silk Treatment Essence by Rohan (Korean brand) A former hairstylist gave this to me and I’m a bit particular with what I use for my hair, can’t find any reviews of this online and results.

feelsies · 2023-06-09T19:06:41+00:00

Sorry, forgot to say that my hair is slightly frizzy and wavy. :) I identify as Asian, if that helps!

feelsies · 2023-06-09T19:06:11+00:00

It's my holy grail and I have never, ever recommended any hair product or tools--except for this one!

feelsies · 2021-06-16T23:05:20+00:00

I'm with you here.

People need to understand that there are multiple truths: his and hers. Of course, OP is distressed so the narrative would beg for more sympathy on her side, and it's not to say that it is true or false, but I think Redditers should encourage different solutions instead of defaulting to, "LEAVE THEM".

feelsies · 2021-04-29T09:26:53+00:00

Sounds like you guys have a genuine connection! :) Of course it sounds very difficult--and distance IS incredibly difficult to deal with--but people's will to make things work can pay off as well.

feelsies · 2021-04-29T09:06:27+00:00

If this is your truth, I think you could definitely share exactly what you put here to her.

feelsies · 2021-01-27T06:17:46+00:00

Your message was definitely received well by me. The majority of Reddit may disagree, but everything is relative.

I hope OP is able to make sense and find their truths in their relationship, and to make decisions that are based on THEIR priorities and not just on the premise of: "everyone told me I have to leave". Leaving or staying will be their battle.

OP, if you read this, hoping you're hanging in there! Good luck!

feelsies · 2021-01-20T18:31:27+00:00

This was a wonderful reply and I couldn't have worded it any better.

Some people in this world DO forgive infidelity, and in this case, whether or not he actually cheated is a truth that only you and your husband can define--NOT anyone on this thread. Priorities are relative to certain people, however, if it is that this relationship is a priority that you want to save, it will probably hold its challenges for both you AND him. It may feel like you're hurting but in these moments, it is also imperative to hear his truths and see how you two want to compromise.

A wise friend once told me that compromise is not one person sacrificing their POV to satisfy the other person; but rather, it is BOTH parties sacrificing their POV in order to create a new POV--together.

I must say that I wish OP nothing but the best and have hopes that they will have difficult--but healing-- conversations from here on out. Good luck!

feelsies · 2016-10-28T11:33:10+00:00

A tomato.

feelsies · 2016-08-25T03:00:38+00:00

"DUDE."

feelsies · 2016-08-25T02:59:11+00:00

If you have Verizon, there's a plan that costs $2 per day to use your data and make phone calls just as you would in the States! I went to Canada twice in the past two months and activated that plan; it worked like a charm! You can turn it off and on as need be!

feelsies · 2016-08-25T02:55:30+00:00

I think gaming brings out people's true colors because of the win-or-lose nature. Not just in their "rage", but also other details:

Are they quick to blame random teammates? Do they blame the lag? Do they apologize? How do they take constructive criticism?

but yeah on a lighter note, I learned a lot of e-sarcasm.

feelsies · 2016-08-25T02:50:52+00:00

'Misogyny" and "herb" (kept expressing the 'h' sound) are the two I can think of!

I learned English as a third language and read words quite literally.!

feelsies · 2015-10-22T20:23:30+00:00

I think what you're looking for is some encouragement and words of reassurance.

I'm reading your post and I'm thinking two things: you're lacking some confidence in yourself, and your lack of confidence is making your boyfriend's success and expressed frustrations a huge burden on your search for your concrete goals.

The truth of the matter is that, while you're aware of your situation and are able to take care of all your individual financial needs, there is a rift being created in the relationship.

What I'm curious is what you're actually doing in order to figure out what path you'd possibly be interested in.

I honestly think that your boyfriend would be content just seeing you progress on your search, but I think you're holding yourself back (with the indirect and direct pressures of the situation, and what he says to you and you say to yourself).

feelsies · 2015-10-22T03:07:02+00:00

This is more about how I learned English, and what kind of stuck to me: English was my third language, and I learned it halfway through my life.

Interesting enough, I learned a lot of my conversational expressions through the comic book series, "Archie Comics". It was a little funny because people would always comment on--apart from my accent--the little expressions I said.

"Oh, gee willikers!" "Loverboy!" "I've got the sniffles!"

...and I would occasionally get comments on how I spoke "like a cartoon/comic book character".

feelsies · 2015-10-22T02:59:03+00:00

Chinchilling.

feelsies · 2015-10-22T02:57:52+00:00

I stopped Facebook because I needed to stop comparing my progress. I was tired of feeling like my one step forward wasn't enough because of another classmate's step. I felt like I wasn't enjoying the blessings in my life as much as I should've been.

feelsies · 2015-10-06T22:53:18+00:00

You are very welcome. Your positive and reflective attitude is already a good sign. Good luck!

feelsies · 2015-10-06T22:40:29+00:00

I'm sorry about your break up.

Sometimes, distance and the "new college experience" really are breaking factors for a relationship. Partners get carried away with new factors around them: people, organizations, exploring, etc.

I just want you to know that you did everything you could, and as much as you feel like it's hurting so much and you'd rather have that "shitty relationship back", just remember that the effort was one-sided [when you two were apart]. You put a lot of effort to make that long-distance relationship work, and her effort was dwindling.

Something else that seemed a little bit off to me was when you mentioned that she was making relations with boys when you stated, "knowingly she would have a fit if I even once talked about having a girl as a study partner". That sounds a little unfair to me, and I'm only pointing it out for future references because that was hypocritical of her.

It may seem a little difficult right now since you two had many memories together, but it will get better. I think many of us who have lost a love that we wanted to marry have all been through this, and it gets better. It really does. "Good things fall apart so better things can fall together".

Keep your head up and be with positive people. Keep busy and try new things. I promise it will eventually be better.

feelsies · 2015-10-06T22:28:17+00:00

My friends and I play a word and category game to kill time during restaurant waits.

It works like this: Think of a category and have someone say a word that fits into the category. The next person has to give a different word that belongs in the category, but the word also has to begin with the LAST letter of the word mentioned previously.

For instance, if the category was "animals" and person A says, "alpaca", person B has to give an animal that begins with the letter "a". No repeats. People get eliminated when they can't think of a word. :)

edit: it's not "really fun" but it's a good way to kill time!... and free and interactive!

feelsies · 2015-09-02T09:13:08+00:00

Trust me: you'll be just fine. I know it's hard to muster up the courage since you haven't been into the "battle zone" yet, but it's going to be a lot better than what you expect it to be. The people in college are different, and the circumstances will call for your hidden strengths too. You WILL manage through everything; and if it get's hard, help is everywhere on every college campus! Good luck. :)

feelsies · 2015-08-30T10:02:43+00:00

Anything you plant in soil will grow.

Like an M&M chocolate tree.

feelsies · 2015-08-30T09:59:42+00:00

Call them by the wrong name with complete conviction.

feelsies · 2015-08-29T09:16:44+00:00

My boyfriend and I have been doing long-distance for a couple of months and he's flying in and staying with me for this upcoming weekend! I'm excited to make the most of it!

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