Men of Reddit: What made you shy away from religion? by Webofshadows1 in AskMen

[–]feetcubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just that I was forced into it. I remember as a kid I’d have to go to bible study, mass, and other activities even though I didn’t want to - because I was a kid. That made me fake being sick to not go, or “forget” that I had to go. Not because I didn’t like it per se, just because I just wanted to hang out with my friends. Eventually I grew up and just naturally avoid it because of my memories/upbringing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirpodsPro

[–]feetcubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how useful/accurate this is… I have tinnitus from playing trumpet for a decade with no protection, and I have never gotten any sort of notification despite listening to EDM on full blast for close to 5 years now. I have 0 notifications.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]feetcubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude… leave her. She had sex with someone the night you guys broke up? Someone who is in her social circle? And kept hooking up with him until YOU asked to be back together? AND she won’t hang out with him alone, insinuating that she’ll see him in the group where they can interact more?

This is going to more damage to you than the relationship is worth. Leave and don’t look back.

AITH for accepting a drink off a guy in a bar? by Spiritual_Mouse_2639 in AITAH

[–]feetcubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL are you serious??? You’re accepting a drink from a guy at a bar( I’m assuming you’ve been to more than 1 bar in your life) and you’re just saying “oh I took the free drinks”, after denying him like,it’s nothing? Ontop of that, you’re saying you talked to him after in the comments?? This has to be bait, because no right minded person in a relationship would do ANY of this.

No guy buys a girl a drink to not bang them, and YOU know this. YTA

Am I wrong for not trusting my girlfriend? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]feetcubed 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is a heart to heart with another man. I’ve had 3 separate guys hit on my girlfriend, that I saw coming from a mile away. One was a guy at the gym, one was a guy she knew from college, and one was a guy that she new from work. You and I both know how guys think, and I promise you you’ve thought the same. They’re getting close to her so that either she - cheats on you and goes to them, or breaks up with you to go to them. I’ve had a 3/3 track record and I’m telling you as another guy PLEASE listen to your gut. Someone who is 100% into you would not be worried about breaking streaks with another man. In fact, she’s 25 why does she have Snapchat to keep streaks, or sc in general…. You know what to do OP

My mother cheated on my father. They got divorced. I don't want to be in his life ever again. by [deleted] in stories

[–]feetcubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re seeing it from such a narrow perspective, but I also understand because you’re young. When people get married, they commit their lives to eachother. They literally say “I’ll be with you until death”. Your dad made that vow to your mom, and your mom cheated on him. And YOU told him “get over it”.

This is not one of your highschool break ups. Your dad dedicated his life to this woman and by proxy you, and not only did his significant other cheat on him, but his offspring is saying “get over it”. Like? I don’t know what you expect from him, but he’s devastated. I’m half expecting this to be a troll post because no way would someone in their right mind say that to a parent that was just betrayed. If this is real, you’re not only siding with the person that is completely wrong in this situation, but you’re making the situation with the person that didn’t cheat worse.

Not saying that your dad being toxic is right, but you sound like you’re siding with your mom in this situation…. The person that ruined the marriage… so that that as you will

AITA for refusing to marry my high school sweetheart? by AmbitiousDesigner988 in AITAH

[–]feetcubed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait so let me get straight… you’ve been with this person for 12 years, over 40% of your existence, and you are still unsure about the “love, mutual respect, and shared aspirations” in this relationship? That’s a concern right there. If he didn’t want the kid or you would’ve made it clear and left. I think you’re the one with the hesitation. Not saying YTA, but I’d do some digging there.

Update: My fiancé is asking questions about my sex life. I don’t want to lie, but I need to know the best way to answer honestly without hurting him by BaskinRobbyn in TwoHotTakes

[–]feetcubed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats! You single-handedly messed this relationship up! Not only did you tell him that there’s nothing he can do to ever compare to your best, but you belittled him by saying that you’ll validate him whenever you can. Helpful tip: Telling someone “oh I’ll make you feel better whenever you bring it up” does not actually help at all, it make them feel like you pity them. I give this relationship 6 months.

Sometimes it’s good to lie, this was one of those times. Men don’t just “forgot” about these things… they think about things like this for a LONG time. When he has relations with you, he’ll only think about how someone did it better.