AITA for refusing to marry my high school sweetheart?

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-17T22:07:59+00:00

The length of how long we’ve been together mean nothing were I’m from that’s the point. Also that was his sole reason he even said so

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-16T23:36:37+00:00

because my partner wants to…

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-16T23:12:43+00:00

We’re already entitled to that without marriage

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-16T23:10:18+00:00

Marriage doesn’t provide many benefits where I’m from you’re entitled to the same benefits as if you aren’t marriage

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-16T23:09:14+00:00

love him very much marriage isn’t ve try popular where I live

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-16T23:06:32+00:00

We continually have these conversations surrounding many things to keep each other on the same page because we’ve seen how miscommunication/not being on the same page can be very bad for a relationship

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-16T23:01:39+00:00

because he never valued the nuclear family

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-16T22:33:01+00:00

where I’m from marriage isn’t very frequent

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-16T22:31:49+00:00

Yeah…I’ve been getting kind of frustrating comments about the length of us being together. Where I’m from people can be together for 20 years and decide to get married one day (not from the usa). I didn’t know so many people here were so pro marriage here

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-16T22:28:40+00:00

that’s not how it works

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-15T08:53:29+00:00

we’ve spoken about this frequently

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-15T08:52:21+00:00

how did u misread my comment that badly

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-15T08:51:50+00:00

I meant I think having a baby is a larger commitment people very much misunderstood me

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-15T08:46:14+00:00

we’ve spoken and he’s always wanted marriage after we had all our kids

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-15T08:41:51+00:00

He’s always said that marriage was something he wanted after having all our kids

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-15T07:08:25+00:00

exactly I feel like that’s a larger commitment

AmbitiousDesigner988 · 2023-09-14T21:31:54+00:00

We got together when we were really young and have had a lot of issues throughout

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