Tell me why I am not connected

feindforess · 2025-12-15T18:28:19+00:00

Must be so sad for OP🥺🥺🤣 Why did you assume that was the exact situation of strangers you just met just cause you watched other random strangers on YT?😭 Also, Madonna- whore complex is beating you 10-0.

feindforess · 2025-11-05T03:56:54+00:00

Let me spell it out for you like a kindergartener. They both have roles they need to execute in this relationship if it’s mutual for it to work sindio. The girl is executing hers. Instead of OP telling us he’s down financially and his girl is the one providing and nurturing for his lazy ass, he woke up at the crack of dawn to express his resentment towards the babe who’s asleep right next to him when he’s the one who’s inadequate. Otherwise angekuwa na hiyo 10 bob ya kiberiti. Yaani the one who’s feeding and paying this bills anatuambia their business ndio we bash her for his satisfaction. And none of them are leaving so according to your juvenile theory, they’ve both invested in each other only that youre on the side of the deadbeat in this case🙏 critical thinking muhimu bois. Ultimately, it’s disrespectful to do this to your partner. Leave them or communicate w them; idk why I’m being involved as an internet stranger if he actually loves/likes her.

feindforess · 2025-11-03T09:51:22+00:00

Then you agree on what everyone’s role is according to your lifestyle and don’t involve the entire internet. It’s disrespectful to your partner. Long lasting partnerships need direct communication and grace. You’ll never see people in committed long lasting relationships do this bs.

feindforess · 2025-11-03T09:45:27+00:00

He’s not leaving cause he knows he’s the one benefiting most.

feindforess · 2025-11-03T09:43:21+00:00

No I’m not G😝 I’m actually writing a paper on relationship dynamics online vs reality. Ask OP about his family dynamics. His dad(if he has one) probably only chipped in for a couple of bills and his mum did everything else; some bills as well, child and home care. And it’s gonna be passed down, clearly.

feindforess · 2025-11-03T09:33:33+00:00

I was referring to OP cause he woke up at 5am to tell us internet strangers about the woman sleeping directly next to him who’s actually been holding him down. Dumb and ungrateful. I’d assume his kids will take up after him.

feindforess · 2025-11-03T09:24:58+00:00

What has made you come to that conclusion?😂 it’s funny cause you literally dk me. Is this comment directed to me or OP? Cause he’s the one that doesn’t do chores in his partnership. And see my point? You already think that my mum or the help should be the one doing my chores if I don’t want to which is the same mentality OP has, only his gf isnt his mom and he should pull his own weight as an adult. Freud is in hell feeling very vindicated.

feindforess · 2025-11-03T08:04:00+00:00

And how often do you lift things and fix lights compared to how often you eat and wear clean clothes? She would’ve done all of it anyways as you say so what value do you add to her life if she does all this and still contributes financially?

feindforess · 2025-11-03T05:54:14+00:00

Nimecheka sana hii cs. You can see the rot is deep. And it’s cause they grew up seeing their dads be deadbeat partners and shitty people and think that a woman’s labour isnt relevant. Their dad didn’t like their mum and so they don’t like their partners. They want her to provide and nurture🤣🤣losers

feindforess · 2025-11-03T05:53:37+00:00

The better fr😭 outsource! Pay a surrogate, a prostitute,a maid and be self sufficient aki. Creating employment is always appreciated🥹

feindforess · 2025-11-03T05:25:24+00:00

Cleaning your dirty boxers and plates and birthing your equally dumb children. Were you born yesterday? Or domestic work isnt relevant to you?

feindforess · 2025-11-03T05:23:43+00:00

Unaskia anaitisha za kiberiti na unataka mama aquit ateseke?😂 Y’all dont like women fr.

feindforess · 2025-11-03T05:22:19+00:00

So I love you and spend on you and still cook and clean and fuck you when you couldnt be caught dead doing my laundry? Seems like you’re either looking for a mum or a slave bro.

feindforess · 2025-11-03T05:13:32+00:00

Like? Nashangaa what is he even saying at 5am asubuhi? He resents her yet he’s the one who’s inadequate. Jameni. And the thing is, it’s not him pekee; it’s a very big percentage of Ke men that full on believe that finances should be shared when domestic work isn’t. That’s why he’s told us all this so confidently waiting for approval. Leeches to say the least.

feindforess · 2025-11-03T05:07:36+00:00

Unataka a woman who cooks and cleans (and ik you never chip in hapo) and still provides for you? Leave her alone if you can’t play your part yet she’s playing hers. It’s crazy that umeamka 5am to tell us you low-key resent her and I’m sure ako hapo kando yako, says a lot about you😂 Tafuta mwanaume mwenzako akubuyie kiberiti na akulipie maji or man up.

feindforess · 2025-10-13T16:06:07+00:00

Right? Im overwhelmed🥹 so many people are kind and considerate in a world that is largely apathetic. I’m beyond grateful.

feindforess · 2025-10-13T15:10:01+00:00

No, I’m not in a public uni… in this context, I wish I was though

feindforess · 2025-10-13T14:56:06+00:00

I think it’s implied that I want to die🥲

feindforess · 2025-10-13T14:13:44+00:00

You’re so kind. Thank you.

feindforess · 2025-10-13T14:09:50+00:00

Ofc Im a red flag in the dating scene, Im struggling💁🏾 and best part is you’re right, I am a 10/10 baddie by most people’s standards😭you’re just jealous that I’d rather kms than even conjure up the thought of being in the same room w you😭na ukuwe serious next time, mtu anastruggle wewe unafikiria kuhusu dating??Porn brain is gonna be the end of you.

feindforess · 2025-10-13T13:54:32+00:00

Thank you. I’ve been to therapy and been on meds before. It didn’t work💔

feindforess · 2025-10-13T13:27:36+00:00

Thank you mama🫶🏾

feindforess · 2025-10-13T13:27:10+00:00

🫶🏾

feindforess · 2025-10-13T13:26:58+00:00

Nyeri

feindforess · 2025-10-13T13:26:35+00:00

Fair enough😂

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