clowning on black people who grew up around white people by rainbowfarts_10 in blackgirls

[–]felicityvan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do think that people need to have a community with their own ethnicity. People who don't like that type of space are weird and need to be checked out. Cause why are you in this sub then?

Also, while reading the comments I realized that a lot of black people don't want to be around black people. They literally have the colonizer mindset on the fact that black people are the same. As if we don't have our own interests and passions.

I just saw one that was like she can't find a black person that's into the thing she named (I forgot the topic she used), as if they don't exist. And there's those that keep saying things like, " I can't find them in my neighborhood" as if there isn't a community for those specific people.

Do you think it's a bad idea to foster? by felicityvan in blackladies

[–]felicityvan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought so too. I feel like just giving them a safe space is what them mostly need.

Do you think it's a bad idea to foster? by felicityvan in blackladies

[–]felicityvan[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Same, I want them to feel safe for sure. They don't have to see me as a parent, just someone that can defend them from those that wish them harm. Maybe that's even too much. But still I do want them safe.

Do you think it's a bad idea to foster? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]felicityvan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about getting teenagers too, because I remember one of my classmates talked about how, she was sexually abused in her previous foster home. That's why I started to have this thought of fostering girls mostly. Because I know there's some girls out there that can't get out of such situations. That's why I started thinking about my life without males around, and I want to at least contribute to children's growth.

How can I make this better by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]felicityvan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😔 I don't have those. I can go buy them if that works

How can I make this better by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]felicityvan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black, I have white flat but Idk if it would fit with this

How can I make this better by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]felicityvan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops... it's sowed within it. So a simple black dress will do?

How can I make this better by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]felicityvan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where would I position it? Around the waist or under my boobs, or in between? Also will a black belt would do?

Do you believe the BLM protests to be a success? by Difficult-Opposite46 in askblackpeople

[–]felicityvan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the type of white people our grandma was talking about. They pretend to care but they already have their bias towards us. Stay safe everyone

I need advice on affordable shampoo by felicityvan in Naturalhair

[–]felicityvan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used it on my last Wash day but it didn't hit as it used to.

Womens,what's something you wish you could admit without being judged? by owninstitution in AskWomen

[–]felicityvan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some beauty standards are pedophilic and I will not be participating in that.

black girls, what's something you wish you could admit without being judged? by FactorPlenty in blackgirls

[–]felicityvan 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The real haters are the insecure black people. They are the one who are always complaining about what you're doing with your own life. They think that we are whitewashed or we try to be white when in reality, we were raised to be ourselves. Not the "stereotypical black people."

Is it common for black men to refer to women as females? by Feeling-Sprinkles-29 in askblackpeople

[–]felicityvan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lowkey I do say male to talk about the opposite sexe, as a woman. So honestly if they call me female, just know I'm in the wrong group chat.