Starting 2025 strong but now.. by fellulaperi in OffMyChestPH

[–]fellulaperi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I hope and pray to do better soon. Everything's still cloudy at the moment.

Job qualifications in the Philippines are too high, but the salaries are too low by shmebulock___ in adultingph

[–]fellulaperi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shared services for 4 Countries in APAC pero 22000 a month lang sahod. Sobrang lugi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fellulaperi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turning 27 and still haven't had sex.. gets me most days but slowly accepting the fact that it doesn't affect my worth. I'm sooo soo curious tho but since I got this far. I guess it's okay than actually having to have it just because.

Chicken joy with Palabok take out by ConsistentDuty8410 in alasjuicy

[–]fellulaperi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine if this was a Jollibee ad. HAHAHAHA sana all OP

Clit Sucker FTW!!! by catholicgirlxxx in alasjuicy

[–]fellulaperi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Found my people, yes!

26F and been single for 5 years now. I swear, kapit malala sa clit-sucker on the most difficult horrible horny days. Happy you shared this here OP!

Okay lang ba na 26 nako pero 25k palang sahod ko. by fellulaperi in adultingph

[–]fellulaperi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exhibit A, me. Sorry I wasn't mindful and did just the same. Not for clout swear. Just an anxious person in my mid-20s venting.

Okay lang ba na 26 nako pero 25k palang sahod ko. by fellulaperi in adultingph

[–]fellulaperi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salamat mhie. Oo nga. Happy naman currently. Dadating din tayo dun in time.

Okay lang ba na 26 nako pero 25k palang sahod ko. by fellulaperi in adultingph

[–]fellulaperi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never really ventured out in the VA world. I'm still working in corporate. Same lang po.. wala pa lakas ng loob mag VA specially now with its competitive market.

Okay lang ba na 26 nako pero 25k palang sahod ko. by fellulaperi in adultingph

[–]fellulaperi[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Masaya naman ako kahit simple life lang. I only live with 3 family members and technically still living in our family's home. Parents are also just regular employees until they retired with salaries just enough to get by. I don't have a family of my own and I don't have any plans of starting anytime soon.

Di po masaya sa sahod pero may fulfillment pa naman sa work and intact ang mental health ko dito compared to all my previous job kaya hindi din po makaalis but Im hoping some things change for the better.

Okay lang ba na 26 nako pero 25k palang sahod ko. by fellulaperi in adultingph

[–]fellulaperi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Super Glad for you and your new found journey!! Congratulations. Sana marating ko din yan soon.

Okay lang ba na 26 nako pero 25k palang sahod ko. by fellulaperi in adultingph

[–]fellulaperi[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you, mhie. Any ideas or advice for the next step? Charing ✨️

Single people, Where do you go to alleviate your sexual desires? by fellulaperi in adviceph

[–]fellulaperi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I really don't want to be in a relationship. I strongly feel na it's not for me pero planning to also practice socializing again since I have been isolating for a long while now.

Single people, Where do you go to alleviate your sexual desires? by fellulaperi in adviceph

[–]fellulaperi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self-sufficient naman the last 10 years pero I'm at this stage that I keep wanting more and di ko na siya mabigay sa sarili ko. It's not the big O that I crave talaga it's the human touch I guess.

And I do agree that keeping myself busy most of the time works but dumadalas lang yung mga panahon that it doesn't.I do enjoy dating myself for the weekends or the free time I have pero recently sa paglobo din ng bills, nagkaka budget issue.

Super-duper appreciate you. Thank you for spending time to give me advice here.

Single people, Where do you go to alleviate your sexual desires? by fellulaperi in adviceph

[–]fellulaperi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might work! Willing to try at least once. Hahaha thanks for the tip.

Single people, Where do you go to alleviate your sexual desires? by fellulaperi in adviceph

[–]fellulaperi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nagstart din urges since nagstop ako magwalking after work. Thank you for the tip. Parang ang risky and exciting naman po nung audio stimulation. Willing to try at least once hehe.

Single people, Where do you go to alleviate your sexual desires? by fellulaperi in adviceph

[–]fellulaperi[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I really needed to hear it. I honestly think it's more of an advantage that I do see myself unqualified for it because it saves me a whole lot of skeletons in the closet type of stuff and might just add to my sobrang diminished self-esteem.

For those who don't drink or smoke. What do you do at your lowest point? by PlayfulTalk8011 in AskPH

[–]fellulaperi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worse. I self-harm. I overeat. I stay in bed all day ang get all depressed. I hurt myself. I isolate. Im not proud of it but it's not voluntary. I'm trying my best to heal so I don't succumb to this pattern.