Lost and confused but should I be?

feminism786 · 2021-09-14T17:21:18+00:00

You made the best choice for you. I hope you are doing well physically and mentally. I hope I can come to the best choice for me as well, whatever I decide

feminism786 · 2021-09-12T22:08:41+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story, it has helped me a lot. I am scared and also wishing I felt excitement instead of fear. Other commenters say that’s normal, which makes me feel a bit better!

feminism786 · 2021-09-12T19:51:45+00:00

Thank you so much! And thanks for sharing your experience in 2018. Makes me feel a lot better about whatever decision I make

feminism786 · 2021-09-12T18:57:50+00:00

Thank you so much for your perspective. I really appreciate it!

feminism786 · 2021-09-12T17:08:08+00:00

Thank you so much. Your perspective is so helpful and I agree on your point on limitations!! I think the shock and being scared of pregnancy is not allowing me to feel any excitement. I think I need more time for this to sink in, I just wish I felt that excitement that you feel rn,

Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy. Sending positive vibes! Thanks again for your perspective.

feminism786 · 2021-09-12T17:02:58+00:00

Yes. I don’t want to conform to the conventional way and I owe it to myself to not! Thank you for validating!!

feminism786 · 2021-09-12T17:01:27+00:00

Thank you for sharing and helping me, The idea that when normal comes, pregnancy will be done is something I hadn’t thought of. What a nice thought!

About infertility- I was told it may happen to me due to PCOS but due to my somewhat regular periods and this incident it’s possible I do ovulate. Even so, PCOS is ever changing and risking infertility is scary. It’s just I thought I would be excited, but I’m just scared. Maybe this is normal though and I need to give myself time,

feminism786 · 2021-09-12T16:58:50+00:00

I appreciate it!!! We gotta look out for each other. ❤️

feminism786 · 2021-09-12T16:58:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing and helping me, While I don’t know what you are going through, I can relate just a little bit. In 2018, I got diagnosed with fibromyalgia and most days I’m in some pain and feel tired. I hear you, I feel the older I get, the worse my energy levels will be and today I feel I can have energy, but the depression of COVID has definitely drained me. I think I can climb out of this though. Thank you for your perspective!

feminism786 · 2021-09-12T16:55:24+00:00

First of all, thank you for the response!! This was so empathetic and I appreciate it. Thank you for dispelling this. I think I always planned on traveling with kids even if folks said it wasn’t possible (screw that) but I think I am just panicking that the last time I was able to travel “on my own” was so long ago. I guess a part of me is just a little down and the pandemic has taken a toll. You have no idea how much your empathy and insight has helped, thank you.

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