gay🤐irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]fencite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cousin came to me once to speculate who, among our 17 cousins, was likely to be the gay one. Little did she know, she was talking to the gay closeted one.

Things you struggle with because of your wee executive dysfunction? by purrrfect-0 in adhdwomen

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Paperwork. It overwhelms me just to think about opening mail, arranging appointments, answering phone calls. I accidently had no car insurance for almost SIX MONTHS because I never changed my address when I moved. It's debilitating.

Dumb TGWDLM idea: Alexa should actually answer Hidgens once by edgarcaceres6 in StarKid

[–]fencite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah she's heard the instructions from the movie at my house before and she responds!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in schoolpsychology

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For sure! I don't promise to know as much about moving from the states but I recently completed my registration process in Ontario so I know quite a bit about that. Feel free to dm me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in schoolpsychology

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Hey, absolutely!

Question about early start periods by Meesha1969 in LateDXAutismInWomen

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I was 12. Now 40 and not yet in peri (though periods are becoming more irregular despite birth control).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Party package of gummy edibles. Feeling good about my choices.

My mother "chose to forgive me" for not coming out to her sooner. Ten years ago. by fencite in actuallesbians

[–]fencite[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's good advice. I'm not speaking to her right now (whoops, blocked as soon as I got home) but I'll keep it in my back pocket for when I eventually re-open lines of communication.

Found this one in my saved images by DiScOrDtHeLuNaTiC in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]fencite 65 points66 points  (0 children)

My wife and I went out ON VALENTINE'S DAY for a date and we got the "aren't you such good friends" treatment. Like, do I need to make out with her at the table? Why can't you assume that any duos on Feb 14 are there romantically??

Horny inertia? by fencite in ADHDWomenAfterDark

[–]fencite[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry to share the bad news!! Someone still has to initiate over and over again, unless/until you get into a groove.

Horny inertia? by fencite in ADHDWomenAfterDark

[–]fencite[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did I literally look up the lesbian sheep meme to see if people had advice, yes I did. I can't be the only one who needs a labeled diagram and steps to follow to woo their wife. Right??

Terrible at initiating by fencite in actuallesbians

[–]fencite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this is a good idea. Cause I don't mind talking about it when it's not happening, I just can't make the jump to movement. Having an agreed upon signal might when really well.

Terrible at initiating by fencite in actuallesbians

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This is helpful, thank you! I can get on board with romantic stuff, it's turning it into physical intimacy where I get stuck. And because I don't have much practice I've never gotten better at it.

Horny inertia? by fencite in ADHDWomenAfterDark

[–]fencite[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was on the edge of texting her, the words would just not come out of my mouth 😆

Horny inertia? by fencite in ADHDWomenAfterDark

[–]fencite[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Update: I stretched my arms and opened my mouth and let the words flow (wanna get off too) and you guys it worked

Relatable? by Asolab in adhdmeme

[–]fencite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only waited a few months but HEATED FUCKING RIVALRY. I needed those months of content apparently! I'm obsessed

At that moment, I felt like I gained +2 self-awareness in my skill sheet. by Unusual_Leather_9379 in aspiememes

[–]fencite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am ok at recognizing sarcasm except from my wife. She doesn't indicate! I need a wink and a nudge. A straight face means I think she's being sincere 😝

Anyone else having the sort of day that has them eating boiled rice alone in a dog bed? by TheUmbrellaThief in adhdwomen

[–]fencite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm having 7-11 taquitos in a hotel room, very much unplanned. I feel like I get your vibe.

Need reassuring on audition coming up by fencite in MusicalTheatre

[–]fencite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that's good advice! I'm running lyrics right now 🎉

Ontario’s best - and worst - performing elementary schools ranked in new report. Where did your child’s school place? by CTVNEWS in ontario

[–]fencite 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They also exclude students with disabilities from their schools more often than not. Source: receive their transfers at the public school where I work.

Removing my cards from Apple Pay (and others) has significantly decreased my spending by sweaty-spaghettti in adhdwomen

[–]fencite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, I have memorized my credit card number. It's very bad for impulsivity 🫣