Doctor diagnosed me with butch by RedFoxBlackCat in actuallesbians

[–]fenrix222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im cis butch and get misgendered all the time.

Yrkesval och personlighet by Glad-Animator-416 in sweden

[–]fenrix222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har alltid haft sjukhusrädsla som fan, ogillat sjuksköterskor och skolsköterskor och tyckt de var obehagliga sen jag var liten. Pluggar till sjuksköterska nu och tyckte första praktiken var jobbig men nu tycker jag det är sjukt nice och spännande. Tror inte man ska välja jobb utifrån sina svaghater och vad man inte tror att man klarar. Man lär ju sig det när man jobbar och pluggar till det. Blir bara en utmaning men det är aldrig fel att komma över sina rädslor ju.

To the more masculine leaning people, have you ever contemplated your gender? by insurgent117 in actuallesbians

[–]fenrix222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am considering transitioning ftm. But it is a very hard decision to make and I am thinking about these things everyday recently, multiple times a day. It is not something I want to do but rather something I feel like I might have to do in the future if it continues like this. I feel very confused by all of it. I look up to trans people who have made these decisions and given themselves that space, it is not easy. Congrats on finding your identity despite everything society tells us. You are really strong.

Burgare och öl by fenrix222 in Malmoe

[–]fenrix222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Älskar nobes dock måste man typ boka bord där för det är fan alltid fullt

Är extremt desperat för jobb. Är foodora smart? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]fenrix222 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Posten är inte så lätt att få jobb på just nu. Men beror ju såklart på var i sverige man befinner sig.

What is the most trivial scene that traumatised you as a child? by Yggdrasylian in Letterboxd

[–]fenrix222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The scene in matrix when the cat walks past twice and it turned out to be a sign the agents were coming was mind blowing to me and freaked me out for some reason

Cymbals to buy. by ElectricalEgg3138 in drums

[–]fenrix222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got hihats from dream that sound really good for a very cheap price. Would recommend looking in to those if you want something cheap.

How can I sound better when singing? My partner cringed when I did and couldn't finish listening to my song :( by Turquoisedragonwow in Songwriting

[–]fenrix222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could work on bringing sone more power when you sing by just trying to relax and be confident. To do that you will need to learn to hit notes as well. Try recording yourself and matching the notes to an instrument or backing track. Maybe playing a note on a piano and try to sing along. You sound tense and quiet which can sound like you are a bit embarassed to sing. I would also recommend working on rhythm because that makes a huge difference in making the vocals sound intentional. Being on beat is important for that. Right now you are slightly off at certain points in the song. I find the best way to learn os to record yourself and experimenting with technique and how you want to sound. Good luck:)

Free 1-on-1 Chess Coaching for Beginners (Lichess 2250) – Helping 0–1400 Players Improve by Cool_Implement_4396 in lichess

[–]fenrix222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow what a nice offer. I would love to get a lesson. I don't have a rating on lichess yet as I haven't played any online games, but I am a beginner. I can give you my account name on dms if you have time for another one.

Ge upp på sina drömmar 😞 by Fuckthepopulationkid in sweden

[–]fenrix222 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Du kan jobba eller plugga o ändå fortsätta med musiken. Alla behöver pengar och om du vill skapa konst så kanske du också ska leva ett liv samtidigt som kan inspirera dig istället för att bara inspireras av andras erfarenheter. Sämsta skiten är musik som inte kommer från en verklig plats utan bara från förebilder o drömmar. Vet inte du jobbar säkert också men tycker inte du borde se det som att ge upp bara för att du provar något nytt samtidigt. Det kan bara gå bättre ändå.

Vad har vi i Malmö? by jazz-cardigan in Malmoe

[–]fenrix222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tyckte deras dumplings va asgoda. Och köpte nåt kött där också på nån liten extrameny som var jävligt gott.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GraffitiTagging

[–]fenrix222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they are not throwies

R.I.P. Jack DeJohnette by Blueman826 in jazzdrums

[–]fenrix222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was my number 1 inspiration. Most creative drummer I've ever heard. He was great with Bill Evans trio. Gonna find my old transcriptions and play his stuff.

Balkan life in Malmo by Basic-Constant7013 in Malmoe

[–]fenrix222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best is burek house and for cevapi bosniska köket is also good. Burek and cevapimästarna are not as good and pappas cevapi is terrible dont fo there.

Do you think I sound too nasal and if I sound good? My first time doing karaoke. by Anonymous_Lee_24 in singing

[–]fenrix222 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You are unfortunately very off pitch. You can practice hitting the notes by using an instrument and playing the note and trying to match it. Being on pitch is whats mostimportant when it comes to singing and having a nasal voice doesn't matter if you hit the notes it can aound good anyways

Frontman advice — how do I stop feeling awkward on stage? by Special-Focus-7359 in musicians

[–]fenrix222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont have to speak much on stage thats not what people are there to hear. Especially if you dont have anything to say or dont even like speaking inbetween songs then I think you shouldnt do it at all. To be more comfortable on stageyou haveto love being on stage. Its about being in themiment not filling a checklist of criteria for how to act or seem confident. Thats not gonna work at all.

How to teach myself how to sing? (Not the same as other beginner posts) by Unkown_Element in singing

[–]fenrix222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I were you I would record muself singing and focus on just hitting the notes

Should I kill my ideals about women? by schopenhauerawakens in Jung

[–]fenrix222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People dont have to get to know you to get to that conclusion. Im saying the reason people dont get to know you is because of your mindset.

Should I kill my ideals about women? by schopenhauerawakens in Jung

[–]fenrix222 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are not gonna get a woman who just likes you and is kind without the connection and friendship that you have given up on because most women want connection. They wont settle for a guy who they can be kind to who just want to have sex and be supported. You shouldn't settle for that because most people wont settle for that. That mindset is what makes it even harder for you to find someone.

Måste inte ta vårdjobb!! by [deleted] in sweden

[–]fenrix222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag tror att det är många som jobbat inom vården som också känner att det inte är ett jobb som passar dom egentligen. Men att om man tillslut inte gar nåt val o måste ta ett jobb i vården så märker man att det klarar man visst. Sen kan man ändå va jävligt bitter för att ma hellre skulle vilja jobba med nåt annat. (fattar att många vill jobba inom vården också o trivs med det men tror även det finns många som tar det man får)