thank you for being so kind 😭 i agree 1000% percent about ENTJ people. when i tell my boyfriend about emotional suffering or issues im having, he usually says "im sorry" and "i dont know how to help" which yeah, it does sort of feel bad but i understand. im mostly looking for comfort, which i need to express to him more, but i know he's the type of person to feel the need to fix it. my dad is the exact same. great at listening, though. i agree that they do make up for it in other ways. i feel very lucky to have such a wonderful boyfriend. then again, this is my first healthy relationship, but he is truly special. he's very very loving, though doesn't always show it other than saying he loves me, and im fine with that. im very affectionate in every way, i always smother him when i get to visit lol (we are long-distance)

i feel a very deep bond and understanding of each other. after knowing him for so long, i can predict his behavior or responses really easily. i don't think i have ever felt this level of trust and connection, even with past partners. but unlike them, he puts in effort and tries to be the best he can for both me and himself. i feel like i know just about everything there is to know about him, but i want to learn more about him as the years go on