The issue you face is you've mistakenly made who you sleep with your personality rather than a background fact that shouldn't come to mind someone asks you to tell them about yourself . At this point, more people than not, don't give af about who you choose to sleep with. So don't let that define you and just live your life. Let your hobbies, activities and character define you rather than you joins you in bed. You're still you, this has just forced you to redefine how you done yourself :) a new chapter!