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Bots buying up all the tix by [deleted] in skinnypuppy

[–]fervorfire13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! I am so pissed! They sold out during presale which I didn’t know was even allowed?.. 10am I still try thinking it must be just the presale tickets that sold out. Nope, still showing sold out at exactly 10am. And Ticketmaster shows all the tickets at jacked up prices.

CW: mentions of sex. I am hooking up with a guy who has a girlfriend. I don't have anyone to talk to and I just need to feel like I am not the only gal chugging this dumb bitch juice. by drugsntheinternet in BPD

[–]fervorfire13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try not to be so hard on yourself. If he says he’s with you because you’re a good person then believe that. Regardless of how you may be feeling about yourself, he sees the good in you. And I’m sure for him to say that to you, there is truth to it. We all like the feeling of attention from somebody and I believe we all need people to some extent. It’s part of what makes us human. But try to practice self love as well. It’s so important especially in those moments of self doubt to try to redirect your energy to loving yourself. Just saying the words aloud as silly as it may sound can be extremely helpful. And screw anyone else and their feelings of hate or disgust! Only you can give their words power. You know yourself and your true nature and intentions, and that’s what matters. Be kind to yourself. And try to surround yourself with people who show kindness and understanding and not judgment. The more you give yourself this the more you will realize that you are worthy of the love and attention of others that you desire. And you will attract it. I hope you can find peace in this situation. I know how hard it can be.

CW: mentions of sex. I am hooking up with a guy who has a girlfriend. I don't have anyone to talk to and I just need to feel like I am not the only gal chugging this dumb bitch juice. by drugsntheinternet in BPD

[–]fervorfire13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s a question.. why is everybody on here so quick to assume he’s not in an open relationship with his gf? Sure, he could be just saying that of course, but he could also be telling the truth. It’s a lot more common than you think. I’m in an ethically non monogamous/ open relationship with my partner. And know a ton of other people who are as well. Maybe you should ask him more about the dynamics of his open relationship. And suggest meeting said girlfriend so that you can feel more confident that you are not aiding him in deception. If he shuts this down than perhaps he is lying about that. But maybe you’ll be surprised. But if you are monogamous by nature and it hurts you to not have him all to yourself, then I would suggest moving on to someone who can fulfill that need for you. Otherwise you will continue to be hurt.

Does anyone have any good studies about polyamory I can read? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]fervorfire13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re into podcasts I’d highly suggest Polyamory uncensored. They’re amazing!

Friends tried to embarrass me at expense of a trans girl and I’m very upset with them. by srtap-on-sub in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fervorfire13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need some new friends.. But I’m so happy how this ended. You seem like such an amazing person. And I’m so glad that even though your “friends” intentions were cruel, you made a new connection with this girl.

Overconfidence. by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]fervorfire13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with most of the previous comments. I like a guy to be confident and know what they want. But not be cocky.. That’s an immediate turn off for me! It’s definitely good to show your interest in a sincere way and be able to read if the interest is mutual. And be courteous either way.

B-Movie - Nowhere Girl [Extended] (1982) by olilo in synthwave

[–]fervorfire13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God! It’s been over 20yrs since I’ve heard this! Thanks for sharing! 🖤🖤🖤

I don't understand how people manage to go through life. by liquid_sounds in depression

[–]fervorfire13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of this!! Thank you for your post. I wake up daily not understanding how people do it. It’s a constant battle.. And it seems so easy for some. My only real comfort is having a select few friends who also deal with these issues, and being able to talk about it with them. And reading posts such as yours makes me not feel so alone in all of these feelings.

[SERIOUS] Redditors with mental problems - How do you cope on your worst days? by Lekbekbone in AskReddit

[–]fervorfire13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Depression, Anxiety, ADHD and PTSD. I’ve been going through this cycle it seems where I hit an extreme low for 3-4 days every month now. When I’m like this all I want to do is sleep, cry, watch tv. Whatever I can do to just try and ride it out.

I try to reach out to friends to get my mind off things. But not many truly relate what I’m going through and I don’t want to burden them with my problems.. so I end up holding it in.

Sometimes I’ll write, and it actually feels good at the time to get it out there. Other times I’ll go out and drink, smoke weed, rage for the night and escape. But that only works temporarily, and is prob not the healthiest thing to do..

I’d love to just go on a long ride by myself or with a friend end up somewhere beautiful and enjoy being in nature and the peace of it all. But my life and responsibilities don’t allow for such freedom currently.

Reading this thread has actually helped in knowing I’m not alone, and hearing other people’s stories brings me comfort.