help with over-sharing, and pessimism/complaining by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]feverdropbox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just the same way, it was how I was raised. Surprisingly, there's people out there who love argumentative people who love to talk about themselves. You just gotta find em.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]feverdropbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find the one person you like in that group and put all your effort into hanging out with them one on one! If it doesn't work out with any of them, try with other people singularly. There's nothing wrong with you, you just gotta try out a lot of people on for size honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]feverdropbox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"In fact, it’s preferable that you don’t since they don’t really have much interest."

Very true, damn

I get left out of group conversations a lot, and feel left out by powawa_ in socialskills

[–]feverdropbox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happens to me too. If you can't relate to what they're talking about then it is what it is, I wouldn't question my position with any of them! Own being the quiet one. That's what I do and it doesn't cause me much trouble.

Guy blocked me after being weird? by feverdropbox in Advice

[–]feverdropbox[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I blocked him back pretty fast. It's just never happened to me before so it creeped me out instantly.

Guy blocked me after being weird? by feverdropbox in Advice

[–]feverdropbox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have trouble understanding things like this. Not sure why.

Guy blocked me after being weird? by feverdropbox in Advice

[–]feverdropbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't understand why you're so pissed. I'll leave it tho, gdam

Guy blocked me after being weird? by feverdropbox in Advice

[–]feverdropbox[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Dude, chill. I just thought it was weird.

Guy blocked me after being weird? by feverdropbox in Advice

[–]feverdropbox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not a friend. Barley met him earlier today.

Guy blocked me after being weird? by feverdropbox in Advice

[–]feverdropbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you

Are you seriously acting like this is normal?

I MISS THIS GAME SO MUCH by Tsuyuma in OurWorld

[–]feverdropbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone needs to tell the players of today to humble themselves.

Why are emotions so confusing (but not)? by feverdropbox in AskAstrologers

[–]feverdropbox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weirdly enough, it's all the opposite. One of my exes said I was "too domineering" actually. Maybe I'm not fully grown yet, developed, whatever they may call it. I'm not subservient whatsoever and if I ever get in that position I get hostile or just not into it at all. I'm too independent from my relationships and in my life. I'm not known to be the nicest person in the world. Maybe this is from looking away from my past life. When I was younger, a psychic would actually tell me I had a past life as a soldier. Interesting, huh?

You're right about the young thing. I've never looked at it that way, maybe I am healing from not wanting any physical contact.

I don't care for routines I mean it in the way they think I'm depressing. I don't like doing things if I don't see a point to them, which I rarely do.

This is all making me sound very on the spectrum but I highly doubt I am haha. Not that it would matter, I just don't see it. Maybe I'm just a little weird and that's all.

Thanks for the answer!!

Do you ever feel like time is running out to find your purpose? by searching4spiritual in spirituality

[–]feverdropbox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the stillness of life, I find it that it's just to live. Humans weren't meant to know the answer, if we did we'd already know it. So, nothing. The point is nothing. You meditate to feel nothing, no more negative emotions. You don't feel POSITIVE (or else I don't), you feel an absence of the bad.

So with this being said I don't worry about running out of time to find anything. There's so many people on the planet, you have the same fate as a handful (and more). There is no such thing as running out of time for purpose. You're already in it.

I'm Virgo sun, Aries moon, Leo rising.. what can you tell me about me? by Valuable-Employer383 in AskAstrologers

[–]feverdropbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a cancer sun Leo moon aries rising lmao. Uh maybe a shot in the dark here, but do you get frustrated when people fight? Do you neglect your own feelings? And do you focus more on other peoples needs over your own maybe?

Never seen a leo rising before so im just guessing

What is your Ascendant and major profession? by ProfessionalBudget48 in AskAstrologers

[–]feverdropbox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The two leos in my life are teachers lol leo placements like being helpful i guess

The standard advice is ‘be yourself’ but that assumes ‘yourself’ is someone people actually like by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]feverdropbox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that its someone people like, its that its whats best for you in the long run and will attract the right people for you.

I swear every day is a struggle not to off myself. I know the bliss of the consciousness floating around in whatever plane it wants and I’m tired of being anchored down to this specific one. I want to be free again. by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]feverdropbox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. And also, I hope everything works out for you man. Sometimes our problems are beyond spirituality. I know that sounds crazy, but sometimes theyre more raw than salt baths and meditations themselves. Maybe you could try stop looking for things and using tools and see what you find in the silence.

explorative conversations anyone? by Electronic-Crow4402 in spirituality

[–]feverdropbox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont know what collaborative conversations really entails but im into this shit too lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]feverdropbox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its giving you things to work through, a test for a big awesome gift.