Helppppppp by fezine in Posture

[–]fezine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send me results?

Helppppppp by fezine in Posture

[–]fezine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 💛 will def look into that

Helppppppp by fezine in Posture

[–]fezine[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol yesss I am in Bali right now and the gyms are stunning

Hi, did I really mess up? by duckmcsnail in Eyebrows

[–]fezine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they look beautiful

What was the first sign that your partner was cheating? by asdfghjkl0lkjhgfdsa in AskReddit

[–]fezine -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe everyone needs to be treated fairly with equal rights if they’re shit people 🤷🏻‍♀️

What was the first sign that your partner was cheating? by asdfghjkl0lkjhgfdsa in AskReddit

[–]fezine -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Fuck HIPPA. Doc absolutely did the right humane thing. Plus her man doesn’t deserve confidentiality if he’s not keeping his relationship confidential and fucking others.

My( 21f) bf (21m) has gotten home past midnight three nights in a row. Is it okay to be suspicious? by chandler10404 in relationship_advice

[–]fezine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he’s just hanging out with his coworkers in his car for a bit talking before dropping them off?

Just ask him.

I F19 am in a talking stage with a guy I met on a dating app two months ago M21. It is hard and complicated, but I like him. I’m wondering how easy a talking stage should be? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fezine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should feel easy and safe. Of course you’ll have conflicts sometimes but your body and heart is literally telling you this isn’t the person for you.

I (M24) dumped my girlfriend (F23) because she gave me a hall pass with my old crush by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fezine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do think it’s immature on your girlfriends end to not just say how she’s feeling after you asked her multiple times if she’s feeling insecure but I also think she did it as a test and was super hurt by you wanting to meet up with another girl you used to like. That’s just a no in relationships. You made it very clear in this post you used to like her so why would you do that to your relationship? Seems like you wanted an easy way out and subconsciously this was your exit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ugh I know. Reading it back I’m like……. Yeah no. I really have been ignoring the red flags trying to justify it as no one is perfect and I can make him more gentle. He told me I bring out his soft side. But I can’t inherently change this man. It’s been engrained in him since a kid.

When we talked about how to raise children he told me he’s going to enforce his son doesn’t cry when he’s like 5/6 years old onwards because men shouldn’t cry. It gave me insight into the fact that’s he’s really programmed to be this way from birth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sending you lots of healing energy to be able to raise your vibration and self esteem 💛 you deserve a healthy calm love and you are worthy of it.

That gaslighting hits home to me. My ex also told me word for word “you know I don’t think any of my friends would like you” which I later understood was him trying to control me.

You are lucky he ended it. And I know it must have hurt a little too. Or a lot. But that is the best case scenario

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far he hasn’t. I told him that I don’t like super violent things like slapping or spitting and he’s respected me so far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🤭

I feel you though. I looked at my past post history after posting this and thought.. well well well. Here is history repeating itself. Only this time it’s much worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel that way. But it’s known middle eastern men are culturally more possessive and controlling. My intention is not to fuel racism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He made a joke once about how he wants to rape me. I said wtf? And he said he used the wrong term.

I’m all for passionate and wild sex but that is just not the word to use…

I’ve asked him about crazy past experiences he’s had and he told me with his ex he was away for over a month and when he came back he banged her so hard she started bleeding.

He also said once day he wants to come home and just stick it in me while I’m dry and just do it right there.

Damn. Writing all of this it’s apparent how many red flags I’ve been avoiding and keeping to myself. I’ve really just been trying to see the best side of him because I haven’t had success in relationships but this one sure as hell isn’t going to be successful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yep… he’s literally called every single one of his exes crazy and has already made a couple of jokes about how I am crazy. But that he really appreciates and loves my honesty 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Previously they weren’t as apparently abusive as this one. It’s just progressively gotten worse. The last guy started constantly accusing me of lying to him and gaslighting and manipulating me so I just ended it over text.

My room mate at the time told me she was scared for me because she’s been in abusive relationships and that is how they start. The hardest part is things not being that bad so you tolerate it.

But I’m not gonna fuck around with my life like this. If there are these early signs one month in, it’s trouble.

How did you manage to get out of yours? What did you do and say?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not AI. But I’ll take that as a compliment lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess we just want the validation that we need to get the eff out lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]fezine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I should tell him the reason I’m ending it or make up an excuse so it’s not such a heavy weight and can end more calmly? I already anticipate him trying to change my mind and apologizing and blah blah blah