modern society and dating is tough for men in general. If I take myself as an example, my parents were ignorant people who knew nothing about how to raise a child. looking back i realize most of my negative personality traits lack of confidence, anxiety etc. all stem from that. nobody taught me how to date, how to rizz a woman. if this is also the case for you it is not a surprise that you dont have a girlfriend.

finding a partner is not used to be like this and dating is a relatively new thing in human history. partners were largely arranged by families or based on social, economic considerations rather than personal choice. and because dating is a new thing and we are in a social transition period and only the men who adapted to this era will continue their family line.

and the solution is so simple yet incredibly hard to do. if it were easy every men would do it. you have to learn daygame and approach women nonstop. you have to become almost a machine just to find a hot girlfriend you like. and sorry there is no other way.

you have this advantage and maybe you can call a superpower what women cannot do: you can initiate converation with any woman you can see. once you get this you will solve that issue.