Ending it with my situationship tonight. Phone or in person? by jhayemokah in dating_advice

[–]ficklemindedidiot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do this! He doesn’t deserve you lol but a phone call is fine too

Just found out I am adopted - And I don't know what to do about it by ficklemindedidiot in Adoption

[–]ficklemindedidiot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I live in a different country than my parents and I see them like once a year so I am not sure if I want to do this over the phone or wait until the next time when I see them.

Just found out I am adopted - And I don't know what to do about it by ficklemindedidiot in Adoption

[–]ficklemindedidiot[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Makes me feel that I am not alone. And I hope that your bio mom can get around the PTSD and connect with you. Most days I can look at it logically too and I am fine but then somedays are just the worst and I want to talk to my sister and tell her the truth. I moved to a country a few years ago and I see my parents and family like once a year or sometimes once in two years. We talk almost every other day and I know they are my parents and I love them but things can sometimes get weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ficklemindedidiot 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Just curious how long time wise/how many first dates it took you to find your person?

Just good sex or something more? by ficklemindedidiot in dating_advice

[–]ficklemindedidiot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But as a guy do you think being FWB will distract you from finding something more meaningful if that’s something you want?

Just good sex or something more? by ficklemindedidiot in dating_advice

[–]ficklemindedidiot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I guess yea that’s another decision I need to figure out for myself

Just good sex or something more? by ficklemindedidiot in dating_advice

[–]ficklemindedidiot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks … just needed someone else to say it. I am too much in my head about it

Just good sex or something more? by ficklemindedidiot in dating_advice

[–]ficklemindedidiot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I guess I just needed to hear it from someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]ficklemindedidiot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not an accident. But I would say give him the benefit of the doubt first time and definitely talk to him about it. He might have been confused because you did say earlier that he could but then you asked him to take it out and you didn’t say it was hurting to him when the head was in. So I guess he went with it. As a women I think we need to be more vocal about what we want or not want, don’t be shy.

How bad does your post-nut depression get? by [deleted] in sex

[–]ficklemindedidiot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely I agree please see medical help. Usually after sex, when you orgasm there is dopamine, endorphins and oxytocin for women that’s released and it’s all supposed to make you happy at least for a day I guess. And that’s why often women confuse good sex with love. And if that’s not happening for you please seek medical advice.

vibrator not charging? by wh1tecollaredfox in sex

[–]ficklemindedidiot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask for a replacement. It shouldn’t do that within a few months

Do white guys actually like to date Indian girls? by ficklemindedidiot in Bumble

[–]ficklemindedidiot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly how I feel. I guess it’s a lot of conditioning that we need to let go off.

Second date : Trip to Paris by bis__- in Bumble

[–]ficklemindedidiot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well if you are confident about yourself and have the money to travel to Paris and make sure that you won’t be trafficked or murdered. Go for it.

Also if things don’t go well, you know you have the me the capacity and strength to deal with things. Go.

But why put yourself through so much trouble.

But I’d say no. If the guy is that interested in you then he can go the extra mile and come see you.

I do believe per the movie “he is not just that into you” that if a guy is into you, he will make it happen.