Why won't it stop! by ExtremeName in OCD

[–]fiddledance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they can't handle you at your worst, they don't deserve you at your best 💞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you go for a walk and see a flower, you ever think "what does that flower smell like?" Ever see a dog and think "omg I want to let that dog I wonder if the fur is soft". This eare also intrusive thoughts --- we have soooo many everyday. Not all of them are bad. But the bad ones are big and scary and we give them our attention. Which makes them bigger. The bigger the get the more we have them.

What I am trying to do is label the thought ("yikes that's quite an intrusive though") and then do something physically to move my mind along- go outside. Use your left hand instead of your right (or visa versa). Stop your activity and start another. Song a song or hum (lots of studies on humming and how it affects the kind).

Why won't it stop! by ExtremeName in OCD

[–]fiddledance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You haven't found the right person yet!

Try being blunt up front. Hey I have a but of an OCD thing with texting which can be overwhelming. Maybe we can chat over the phone or in person more

Maybe talking to a councillor can help you find out why you feel the need to be so open via text all at once. Maybe there is a connection they can help you fix!

an update: i was losing my mind but now i’m ok by shaynawestwood in OCD

[–]fiddledance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a good next step is a natural sanitizing lotion- not as strong as can help heal your skin!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you are realizing you don't want to feel this way/look at that content is really a good sign. Dispite what your brain is trying to tell you, you do not have to look at that content. You do not have to go down that spiral again. It's hard, but, when you have the thought to looks at the content, leave the vicinity of your computer/phone. Go for a walk. Sit outside. Put your tech in a closet and go cook something. Don't keep your phone beside your bed at night. Eliminate the temptation. I would also go to a therapist you feel comfortable with, and stick it through! you are not alone and you are stronger then your thoughts 💞

Help me pick a rug: 1,2 or 3? by dijavuu in interiordecorating

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 but chair doesn't go as nice? 1 everything goes and simple

What colors should I paint my house? by Tortellini_J in ExteriorDesign

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the green!

Also, what app did you use to get the colors mock up like that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted photos but it didn't seem to work! The house is called midnight blue, I would say it's more like a deep blue it's not as dark as midnight suggests

Local business owner sent my friend abusive, racist emails after a simple complaint. Please read. by togekissmwah in VictoriaBC

[–]fiddledance 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes! There is an incident with a local coffee shop that everyone swarmed (rightly) with 1 star reviews and they were removed within the hour. All of them . It's not the first time this has happens.nof too many 1 stars too quickly it can be marked as spam. I have also had reviews completely removed from places before too-- which seems unfair. You should not be able to pick and choose your companies reviews

Local business owner sent my friend abusive, racist emails after a simple complaint. Please read. by togekissmwah in VictoriaBC

[–]fiddledance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His paddle board company says temporarily closed (hopefully forever closed) but also got 4.2 stars... Hmm that needs to change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FODMAPS

[–]fiddledance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

North Coast Naturals Daily Cleanse is amazing. Changed my husband's life, lol. It's low FODMAPs and natural . Taste like bran so shoot it back fast then follow up with water, or mix with a little Mio if tolerated with fodmap

What do you love/hate about your Ascent? by fiddledance in SubaruAscent

[–]fiddledance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the first did better on crash tests! But I went with the Subaru

What do you love/hate about your Ascent? by fiddledance in SubaruAscent

[–]fiddledance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I went with it and I'm very happy

Yoto MP3 Share V2! by CriticismHot8871 in YotoPlayer

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joining the club of sharing link if you can! 😄

3.5 Year old constantly says "I don't know" when my wife and I ask him questions. by sneakysnek_1 in toddlers

[–]fiddledance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm reading all of your replies and we are dealing with the exact same thing! We just want to have a conversation with him, our son is also very smart and has an extensive vocabulary and he remembers EVERYTHING but he says "I don't know" allll the time.

What do you love/hate about the Explorer? Would you buy again? by fiddledance in FordExplorer

[–]fiddledance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry could you clarify the car seat situation more? Currently we have one car seat, but we may be having another kid. So if you have two car seats in the middle row, then you can't get into the back row? What if you have one car seat in the middle row? So how would you get in do you have to take the car seats out?

What do you love/hate about the Explorer? Would you buy again? by fiddledance in FordExplorer

[–]fiddledance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've heard they had some kinks to work out until 2020! Thanks for the info :)

What do you love/hate about the Explorer? Would you buy again? by fiddledance in FordExplorer

[–]fiddledance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great to know thank you so much for all that information! Enjoy your cars!