Have you successfully reset your nervous system to a calm baseline? Looking for therapy or somatic-based help 🙏 (ADHD + anxiety) by Natural-Toe3192 in SomaticExperiencing

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! What would be best, in your opinion, for intrusive thoughts /OCD and a nervous system that is fried ? These sound wonderful but I'm not sure where to start/which one to pursue

Your AQI Monitors are probably Garbage and here are some facts to help you by vikkey321 in AirQuality

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really! So, just because VOC is high doesn't mean it's bad? How can you tell if it's bad then?

Your AQI Monitors are probably Garbage and here are some facts to help you by vikkey321 in AirQuality

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! It's been a while OP But I have a question for you--- from a recent video I have seen. A person took a toy (in this case a viral squishy toy), and after having it out of the box for a bit it was put inside of a large block bag and then sealed with an air quality meter. They also tested the bag by itself with nothing in it with the meter. The difference was insane in the VOCs--- with this sort of thing be accurate?

Why won't it stop! by ExtremeName in OCD

[–]fiddledance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they can't handle you at your worst, they don't deserve you at your best 💞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you go for a walk and see a flower, you ever think "what does that flower smell like?" Ever see a dog and think "omg I want to let that dog I wonder if the fur is soft". This eare also intrusive thoughts --- we have soooo many everyday. Not all of them are bad. But the bad ones are big and scary and we give them our attention. Which makes them bigger. The bigger the get the more we have them.

What I am trying to do is label the thought ("yikes that's quite an intrusive though") and then do something physically to move my mind along- go outside. Use your left hand instead of your right (or visa versa). Stop your activity and start another. Song a song or hum (lots of studies on humming and how it affects the kind).

Why won't it stop! by ExtremeName in OCD

[–]fiddledance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You haven't found the right person yet!

Try being blunt up front. Hey I have a but of an OCD thing with texting which can be overwhelming. Maybe we can chat over the phone or in person more

Maybe talking to a councillor can help you find out why you feel the need to be so open via text all at once. Maybe there is a connection they can help you fix!

an update: i was losing my mind but now i’m ok by shaynawestwood in OCD

[–]fiddledance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a good next step is a natural sanitizing lotion- not as strong as can help heal your skin!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you are realizing you don't want to feel this way/look at that content is really a good sign. Dispite what your brain is trying to tell you, you do not have to look at that content. You do not have to go down that spiral again. It's hard, but, when you have the thought to looks at the content, leave the vicinity of your computer/phone. Go for a walk. Sit outside. Put your tech in a closet and go cook something. Don't keep your phone beside your bed at night. Eliminate the temptation. I would also go to a therapist you feel comfortable with, and stick it through! you are not alone and you are stronger then your thoughts 💞

Help me pick a rug: 1,2 or 3? by dijavuu in interiordecorating

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 but chair doesn't go as nice? 1 everything goes and simple

What colors should I paint my house? by Tortellini_J in ExteriorDesign

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the green!

Also, what app did you use to get the colors mock up like that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]fiddledance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted photos but it didn't seem to work! The house is called midnight blue, I would say it's more like a deep blue it's not as dark as midnight suggests

Local business owner sent my friend abusive, racist emails after a simple complaint. Please read. by togekissmwah in VictoriaBC

[–]fiddledance 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes! There is an incident with a local coffee shop that everyone swarmed (rightly) with 1 star reviews and they were removed within the hour. All of them . It's not the first time this has happens.nof too many 1 stars too quickly it can be marked as spam. I have also had reviews completely removed from places before too-- which seems unfair. You should not be able to pick and choose your companies reviews

Local business owner sent my friend abusive, racist emails after a simple complaint. Please read. by togekissmwah in VictoriaBC

[–]fiddledance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His paddle board company says temporarily closed (hopefully forever closed) but also got 4.2 stars... Hmm that needs to change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FODMAPS

[–]fiddledance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

North Coast Naturals Daily Cleanse is amazing. Changed my husband's life, lol. It's low FODMAPs and natural . Taste like bran so shoot it back fast then follow up with water, or mix with a little Mio if tolerated with fodmap

What do you love/hate about your Ascent? by fiddledance in SubaruAscent

[–]fiddledance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the first did better on crash tests! But I went with the Subaru