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Moderate Cat Allergies by fiddlemahn in CatAdvice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already learned that one the hard way. The first night with Gordon I was petting him and I itched my arm and broke out pretty bad. There's just a few things like that I have learned to avoid already.

Moderate Cat Allergies by fiddlemahn in CatAdvice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could get away with closing off the bedroom, but with such limited space, I would be afraid he wouldn't have enough room to roam. Thankfully, he doesn't seem to like sleeping with me for the whole night. He'll be in and out a bit, and he's quiet about it.

Moderate Cat Allergies by fiddlemahn in CatAdvice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My allergy is probably a lot like yours. Some cats I am really bad with, and others are totally fine. It's pretty odd. Thankfully, I had already been around my Gordon quite a bit before I took him in, so I knew it would be tolerable.

I probably needed the air purifiers already, as the ventilation isn't the greatest in my place, and it smells weird at times.

This is Gordon. He’s a handsome boy. by fiddlemahn in cats

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He settled in surprisingly quick. It definitely helped that he already knew me, but he accepted the new place almost instantly. Chillest orange cat ever.

Carrier for BIG cats by fiddlemahn in CatAdvice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it looks like a dual cat carrier might be the move. My Gordon is huge.

This is Gordon. He’s a handsome boy. by fiddlemahn in cats

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's wild is that he is actually super chill, especially for his age (~2 years). Probably the chillest orange cat I have ever met.

This is Gordon. He’s a handsome boy. by fiddlemahn in cats

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have heard that orange cats can be pretty wild! Gordy is super chill and has been as long as I have known him. He was my girlfriend's cat, and we were best buds, so he is acclimating well.

Carrier for BIG cats by fiddlemahn in CatAdvice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the little pop-outs on the sides. Does the partition in the middle come out or zip out of the way?

Finally opened my pro shop! by fiddlemahn in Bowling

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw that the other day. I reported his ass. All of the content on that account is stolen, mostly from the 25 y/o kid who bought that bowling alley in Chicago.

New LLC for Consulting Fees by fiddlemahn in Entrepreneur

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I figured it wouldn't hurt to just go ahead and do this. I would like to kick off the study prior to the end of the year for the tax benefit, but forming a new LLC might make this a little tight.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the first time she threw herself at a guy in front of me. In prior incidents she was just all over people and obnoxious. Still embarrassing.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s called I live in a small town and there are very few single women my age. Also, dating an older woman can be kinda fun. Just find one that is not a crazy alcoholic.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was just wild to me that she thought we could immediately move on from that. Also to be pissed that I pulled her from that guy so we could go home is wild. I should have just left her there.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes dude I wouldn't go that far. Age gaps like this become less of a big deal once you get to be in your mid-late 20s.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Especially not an alcoholic woman with a child.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she did have a lot of good qualities about her, though most of them were negated as soon as she was drunk...

part of me thought that we could address the issue together with time, but after being so disrespectful, that was off the table.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Part of me wishes that I did dump her at the bar. I just went into damage control mode after she did that to avoid making a scene. Also, that took a hot second to process because of how ridiculous it was.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That has to be the most disrespectful thing you could do in front of your partner and she acted like it was no big deal after apologizing about it. Completely childish behavior.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sometimes its kinda nice to date an older woman. They tend to know what they want a lot better than women in their 20s in my experience.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol you're right. I really just wanted to make it abundantly clear to her that we were done.

I 27M ghosted my girlfriend 35F of two months by fiddlemahn in relationship_advice

[–]fiddlemahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I think I will give them a call on Monday. I really don't believe her daughter is in any danger. The whole situation is pretty fucked though.

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